FRC Internet Campus Devotional

2011-06-18T16:15:00.001-07:00

Devotional Changes

2008-09-12T22:31:00.000-07:00

Hello everyone...

Sorry about the lack of a Friday post...I hope you took some time yesterday morning and searched a little further into God's Word!

I just wanted you to know that I will now be posting the morning devotions (from now on...) on our regular campus blog: www.internetcampusblog.com (starting Monday morning)...

See you there!

Pastor Brian

Focus

2008-09-11T02:21:00.000-07:00

Joshua 6:1-2 (TNIV): “Now the gates of Jericho were securely barred because of the Israelites. No one went out and no one came in. 2Then the LORD said to Joshua, "See, I have delivered Jericho into your hands, along with its king and its fighting men.”

I love today's verse...here you have a strong leader in Joshua finally being given the land of Jericho as promised by God. He gets there and finds a securely bolted wall guarding the entire city...and what does God tell him? "See, I have delivered Jericho into your hands..."

Really? Is Jericho available for the taking? Seems at first glance that God isn't seeing the same thing that Joshua is... a huge wall and a bunch of angry soldiers just inside the city...

We have to remember when we come through these verses exactly Who it is that is delivering on His word. God has brought Joshua unharmed to the city gates and has the plan to make these gigantic walls fall... all it took from Joshua was faith and focus.

Through faith, Joshua would assemble men to circle the city and blow their ram's horn trumpets...then God's power would take the walls down. If Joshua ever doubted the plan from God, the Bible doesn't indicate it. He would boldly put God's plan into action...the city would fall..and Joshua's faith would be bolstered.

Have you ever faced a huge wall in your life? What did you focus on? Was it the size of the wall or the size of your God? Did you start making up a plan to overcome it? Or did you count on God to have an even better plan?

Focus is everything. No matter what walls you are facing...never take your eyes off of God's power...His timing...and His ability to do the impossible.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

A Holy Life

2008-09-10T02:42:00.000-07:00

Joshua 3:5 (TNIV): “Joshua told the people, "Consecrate yourselves, for tomorrow the LORD will do amazing things among you."

What does it mean to live a consecrated or holy life? Isn't holiness, perfection? Is it attainable? I had the same questions so I researched what living a holy life looks like in light of today's verse..

I believe that living a holy life and consecrating ourselves consists of three elements:

1) A holy life is set apart and cleansed from sin - If we are going to live a holy life, we must remember that we are called to live a life of example to others...set apart...not different in a judgmental or critical way...but because we are living lives that have been rescued through the blood of Christ. We have to remember the Jesus paid the ultimate price for us...our lives are to be lived out as a light in a dark world...forgiven and called to a higher purpose.

2) A holy life is one that trusts and obeys Jesus - If we want to live holy lives...set apart...we need to study who Jesus is. We need to learn who He is and what He wants us to do with our lives. It's not enough to just learn these things... a holy life obeys them. Holy living is all about trusting the promises of Christ.

3) A holy life is one centered on God's Word - Similar to point 2, a holy life is based on the Bible. Memorizing verses and applying them to your life... reading scripture repeatedly while searching for the application to you personally... applying the scripture in your life as the standard for absolute right and wrong... all critical in a holy life.

It is my prayer that as we grow closer to Christ...we accept the calling to live a consecrated and holy life. Remember, we don't have to be perfect...just dedicated to fulfilling the ultimate purpose for our lives...to give glory to our Lord.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

I've Got the Power

2008-09-09T02:38:00.000-07:00

Joshua 1: 6, 7, 9, (TNIV): “Be strong and courageous, because you will lead these people to inherit the land I swore to their ancestors to give them. 7 "Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go. …9Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go."

Yesterday we talked about being ready...prepared for opportunities that may come from God. Sometimes it's a financial opportunity...sometimes it's the chance to rebuild a broken relationship. We must be ready for anything...because when the time comes...we won't have time to prepare ourselves for it.

Great...now we're ready...but have you ever wondered it you'll have the strength to do it? Have you ever thought about your power source? Today's verse directly addresses Who we should look to for our strength...

"Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go."

Just like Joshua...we have God as the ultimate source of strength. Our Creator is waiting to give you the wisdom and strength that you need to get through the opportunities that you have prepared yourself for. Why is it, then, that so many of us live powerless? I believe there are two primary reasons:

1) We don't really understand Who God is - So many times I find myself weary and feeling defeated. Why is that? I sometimes forget that God is all-knowing, all-powerful, and everywhere at one time. He created everything from nothing. He raises the dead and heals the sick... He holds the whole world in His mighty hand. Why can't He give me the strength to handle what I am prepared to handle? It's probably due to the second reason..

2) We don't ask - How many times have you been struggling with the strength issue and decided that it was too minor to ask for help from God for? We turn to self-help books, vitamins, gurus, supplements, or just plain blind determination to pull together enough power to persevere. All God says to do is ask Him. If it's His will for our lives, He grants us the strength that we need. He loves us more than anyone...and wants to see us get through the challenge...all we need to do is go to Him in prayer and ask Him for His strength...

What challenge are you ready for but doubt if you'll have the strength to endure it? Let's pray this morning that we can keep the faith...knowing that if we are ready for the opportunity, that when they come, the God that gives us the chance will be the same God who gives us the power.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Get Ready

2008-09-08T02:53:00.000-07:00

Joshua 1:2 (TNIV): “Moses my servant is dead. Now then, you and all these people, get ready to cross the Jordan River into the land I am about to give to them—to the Israelites.”

Get ready. You've heard it a hundred times... Get ready to have a baby...get ready to go to school... get ready for God to answer your prayers... get ready to eat... get ready... get ready...

It seems like so much of our lives are spent getting ready.

Yet so many of us aren't ready when things happen in our lives. We are taken by surprise...totally unaware that an opportunity is upon us. In today's passage, God is telling the Israelites that they need to get ready to go into the land that He is ready to give them. Do you think they were ready for that opportunity? Not really. They hadn't prepared themselves under the leadership of Moses. They grumbled...they doubted...they worried.

So many of us don't prepare ahead of time for things... We don't keep learning...keep developing...keep pushing ourselves to be better... Somewhere along the line, we settle. We get comfortable with the way things are.

Unfortunately when an extraordinary opportunity comes our way we're caught flat-footed. Not ready. Out of position. Sure, we want to get ready for what God is going to give us...but by the time the chance presents itself it is far too late to start getting ready.

Here's my challenge to you today...as you pray...ask God to reveal to you what element of your life you need to get ready...is it your finances? your emotions? your spiritual life? What part of your life needs to prepare for upcoming opportunities? God is ready to give you something more for your life...it's time for us to get ready for it...ahead of time...

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Friday Prayers

2008-09-04T21:49:00.000-07:00

Good morning!

This morning as you settle in to do your devotionals...let's pray for those that are challenged spiritually...

Pray for those who...

Feel separated from God.

Are praying for the same thing everyday without result.

Have turned their back on the faith.

Have replaced God with someone or something else.

Don't think they have any gifts to leverage for God's Kingdom

There are so many hurting people who are facing challenges in their walk with Christ...let's not forget that all of us go through highs and lows spiritually...it is up to us to help those that are in the valley remember that there are mountaintops as well...

See you this weekend online!
Pastor Brian

Scale of 1 to 10

2008-09-04T02:33:00.000-07:00

Numbers 13:30 "But Caleb tried to quiet the people as they stood before Moses. “Let’s go at once to take the land,” he said. “We can certainly conquer it!”

This week we've been praying and thinking about how we can conquer the giants in our lives. I have sent out many emails with scriptures to encourage fellow believers. You have prayed for each other...and for people that you don't even know to defeat those extreme challenges.

How much do you believe it is REALLY going to happen?

I mean..c'mon...once this week is over...we'll all go right back to worrying and fretting about those challenges in our lives that seem impossible. Right back to wondering if God it truly able to handle the list that we made on Monday.

You don't have to go back.

Let's look at today's verse...look at what Caleb said... "We can certainly conquer it!" What gave Caleb his confidence? How could he be so sure that they wouldn't be crushed by the giants of the land? It was his faith. Caleb believed with all of his heart that God would protect him from whatever insurmountable struggles he might face...

How about you? On a scale of 1-10, what is your level of confidence that God will be able to defeat those giants in your life? Maybe this verse will help...

Ephesians 3:20
" Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think."

God CAN do it. God WANTS to do it. God WILL do it...all in His time... Know that I have been praying for you this week as you stare those giants down. Have confidence in your Creator.... He is much bigger than any giant.

See you tomorrow for prayer Friday,
Pastor Brian

More Than a Grasshopper

2008-09-03T02:51:00.000-07:00

Numbers 13:33 We even saw giants there, the descendants of Anak. Next to them we felt like grasshoppers, and that’s what they thought, too!”

How small do you feel this morning? There are times when I wake up and feel like I am incredibly strong...filled with the power of the Holy Spirit...like I can take on the world! Unfortunately, there are many mornings when I feel exactly the opposite: powerless, weak, puny, and small. It seems like these are the days when the giants in my life grow about 3 inches. I get smaller...and they get larger. Have you felt this way? Feel like a grasshopper in a land of giants? Here are some of the verses that I turn to when I am feeling small and beatable:

John 16:33
"I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.”

Psalm 139:7-10
"I can never escape from your Spirit!
I can never get away from your presence!
If I go up to heaven, you are there;
if I go down to the grave, you are there.
If I ride the wings of the morning,
if I dwell by the farthest oceans,
even there your hand will guide me,
and your strength will support me."

2 Corinthians 12:9
"Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me."

Psalm 37:23-24
"The Lord directs the steps of the godly.
He delights in every detail of their lives.
Though they stumble, they will never fall,
for the Lord holds them by the hand."

Ephesians 3:20
" Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think."

Revelation 19:6
"Then I heard again what sounded like the shout of a vast crowd or the roar of mighty ocean waves or the crash of loud thunder:

'Praise the Lord!
For the Lord our God,the Almighty, reigns.'"

God reigns indeed. Nothing has changed with Him. He has overcome the world...He has healed the sick...raised the dead...heard every prayer you've ever whispered...

He loves you so much that He has given you a purpose and the gifts to accomplish it. You are indeed valuable...and through God's strength you are a giant-killer.

See you in the morning,
Pastor Brian

Take Heart

2008-09-02T02:13:00.000-07:00

John 16:33 "I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.”

This morning, let's look at the list you made yesterday...what were the top 3 "giants" that you are facing? Didn't make your list yet? Go ahead...I'll wait...

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Got your list? Great! Now let's get to work!

Read today's scripture again...notice the words...it doesn't say you might have troubles. It doesn't even say you probably will have troubles... it says you WILL have MANY trials and sorrows. Is that true in your life? It certainly is in mine! So many believe that when they accept Christ as Lord and Savior that their troubles will go away. As you may already know, that certainly isn't the case. You will have challenges that seem insurmountable. They will seem impossible. They will be giant.

The list you hold in your hand is full of giants. Elements of your life that you aren't sure you'll ever get through... Let's look at the 2nd part of the verse: "But take heart, because I have overcome the world." I love that expression..."take heart" What does that mean?

It simply means...be encouraged. Never forget Who is in control. Remember past victories that God has led you through. Think about how powerful God is. Understand that the Creator of the universe is running your life specifically. Never give up hope. Always give up control to Him.

Take your list of 3 things...and write this verse above it. Underline it in your Bibles. It is such a source of hope when things seem at their bleakest. God overcame the world...He can, in His own time, defeat the biggest problems in your life. We must stay patient, stay connected to Him, and never forget how much He cares about us.

See you in the morning...

Pastor Brian

Giants

2008-09-01T03:09:00.000-07:00

Numbers 13:28 "But the people living there are powerful, and their towns are large and fortified. We even saw giants there, the descendants of Anak!"

I remember wrestling in middle school. Back then I was a much lighter guy of about 98 pounds...and I was on the edge of the dividing line between those that wrestled in the 90-98 pound class and those that wrestled 99-110. It never failed that in tournaments, I would get placed in the latter category. I was out-weighted, oversized, and overmatched in every possible way. I would get into matches and just push with everything I had to barely move my opponent. Many times, the matches would end embarassingly with my shoulders pinned to the mat.

That sometimes happens in our spiritual lives as well. Have you ever felt like you were way too small to handle a problem that was way too big? Maybe it was a situation that you initiated..maybe not. In either case, you had to decide whether to fight or flee....stick it our or pack it in...wrestle with it or forfeit.

Maybe that's happening now... Maybe there are some "giants" that you just can't seem to beat in your life. They are bigger than you...and stronger...and all seems hopeless. That's what we're going to discuss this week...overcoming those giants...I hope you'll stay with me this week and we can learn together the perspective we need to conquer what seems impossible...

This morning...let's do this.... make a list of three giants that you are facing in your life...they can be emotional, financial, physical, emotional, or spiritual... they can be anything that right now seems too big to defeat. In your journal, write a prayer asking God to reveal to you those giants... and additionally pray that He will begin even today to open your heart and mind to the perspective that you will need to defeat them...

Blessings to you this morning and always,
Pastor Brian

Prayer Day

2008-08-29T02:52:00.000-07:00

"Always be joyful. Never stop praying. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus."
1 Thessalonians 5:16

Today, as we spend another great morning together, let's make it a day of thanks...

Thank God for this computer you are using to read this
Thank God for another day of breath
Thank God for your health (no matter what shape you're in)
Thank God for the Internet Campus
Thank God for His forgiveness
Thank God for prayer
Thank God for your neighbors
Thank God for this planet

Thanks God for sending His Son.

He loves you so incredibly much...let's spend our quiet time praising Him for what He's done in our lives...

See you online this weekend,
Pastor Brian

The D Word

2008-08-28T03:22:00.000-07:00

2 Tim 1:7 "For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."

How many of us like the term "discipline." I don't. I guess it stems back from when I was a kid. That word implies structure...rules...barriers... It tells me that I am going to be forced to do something that I don't necessarily want to do even when I know that it is good for me. Then I looked at today's verse...it doesn't just say "discipline" it says "self-discipline." It's on me. I have to be the initiator of a daily dose of self-inflicted reality. I am going to have to push myself harder than I feel comfortable doing. It's means I have to get rid of what I want to do all of the time and focus on what God wants me to do with my life...

Exactly.

But that is not the natural bend of the flesh. Deep down we know what we need to do but find it far easier to do what we want to do. I know that I need to love others, take care of my body, speak kind words all of the time, give of what I have, and memorize and study the scriptures often. But sometimes I struggle with doing it.

This morning, I asked myself this question...maybe it will help you focus in on this... "When was the last time I denied myself something because God wanted me to do something else."

I find that I don't do this as often as I should. How about you? Could you make a list of 5 things that you have changed about you and your life because you were dedicated to self-discipline? It's a tough question to ask yourself. The apostle Paul in the Bible says that he had to commit every day to self-discipline...every day!

Some days for me, it's an hourly re-commitment. Some days I can get by disciplining myself to the ways of God much easier. But here's what I do know...I can't go the the land of "sold-out" for God without being willing to change what I was doing in the land of "hold-out". God's got so much for us and He wants to give it to us...we just have to be willing to follow the map laid out in today's scripture verse... realize God's power, love others, and practice self-discipline.

It's just like going to the gym...you may not notice the results right away...but they are there. It just takes persistence and dedication to becoming the person that God created you to be.

See you tomorrow for prayer day,
Pastor Brian

Love Audit

2008-08-27T02:55:00.000-07:00

2 Tim 1:7 "For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."

I talk to so many people who have a warped sense of what it means to love someone. For some, love is simply a romantic feeling...for others it is a deep understanding of a person's needs or wants. Still others see love as a withholding of aggression or disagreement...for example..."I love him so much I just put up with him..." While each of these instances might be an example of a type of love...Jesus defined love best. When asked what the two most important commandments are, the Savior told us that we need to love God first and then love everyone else like we love ourselves.

Love is an action...a verb.

One of the things that holds many of us back from totally selling out to God's will for our lives is our misunderstanding of love. I know that might sound like it is meant for somebody else...but I invite you this morning to go on a little spiritual audit. Start with answering these questions in your journal:

1) Do I see myself as a loving person?
2) Is the love I show for others for their benefit or mine?
3) How much do I love God?
4) What priority does God have in my life?
5) What did I do yesterday to demonstrate my love for Christ?
6) When was the last time I showed love to someone that didn't deserve it?
7) Do I know the difference between the feeling of love and love itself?
8) How much does God love me?
9) How do I know that God loves me?
10) Do I have anyone in my life that I love unconditionally?

I know these are tough questions...but if we are going to move from the land of "hold out" to the land of "sold out" we need to understand what love is. God IS love...He wants us to love Him and others with a selflessness...a sense of sacrifice... a realization that the love that we receive from Him is also meant for us to share with those that He places in our path.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Unplugged

2008-08-26T03:28:00.000-07:00

Psalm 46
1 God is our refuge and strength,
always ready to help in times of trouble.
2 So we will not fear when earthquakes come
and the mountains crumble into the sea.
3 Let the oceans roar and foam.
Let the mountains tremble as the waters surge!
Interlude

4 A river brings joy to the city of our God,
the sacred home of the Most High.
5 God dwells in that city; it cannot be destroyed.
From the very break of day, God will protect it.
6 The nations are in chaos,
and their kingdoms crumble!
God’s voice thunders,
and the earth melts!
7 The Lord of Heaven’s Armies is here among us;
the God of Israel^[b] is our fortress.
Interlude

8 Come, see the glorious works of the Lord:
See how he brings destruction upon the world.
9 He causes wars to end throughout the earth.
He breaks the bow and snaps the spear;
he burns the shields with fire.

10 “Be still, and know that I am God!
I will be honored by every nation.
I will be honored throughout the world.”

11 The Lord of Heaven’s Armies is here among us;
the God of Israel is our fortress.
Interlude

When I travel...I tend to travel light. I don't pack too many clothes and such...but there is always one back that is non-negotiable. It's what I call my "tech bag". Inside that bag is every charging cable, sync cable, plug, adapter, and battery that my portable gadgets require. Even if I'm just doing an overnight somewhere..I bring all of these wires...and why? Because something might run out of juice! A disconnected and empty gadget won't be able to fulfill the purpose which it was created for...

Think about your life this morning. Have you run out of juice?

I meet so many people who complain that they feel disconnected from God...that they don't know what God wants them to do... but somewhere along the line they have unplugged from Him. They've gone to their own power...running on their own battery... only to find that the battery drains quickly!

When was the last time you plugged into God's Word? What was your last worship experience like? Honest and sincere or guarded? What is your favorite verse in the Bible...and have you memorized it? What small group are you in? How are you growing more like Christ day-to-day? When faced with a challenge...do you turn to God first or as a last resort?

It's these things that will keep you charged up and ready for anything. There isn't a secret or a technique....it's all about maintaining a connection with the ultimate power source...Jesus Christ. Lean on Him when you struggle. Plug into Him when you need strength. Connect to Him when you are drained. You don't need a "tech bag"... you have all the power you need.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Swim!

2008-08-25T02:52:00.000-07:00

2 Tim 1:7 "For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."

This weekend, Pastor Troy talked about the land of "Hold Out" and the land of "Sold Out" In other words, going from a life of excuses to a life of excellence...completely giving your life to Christ. What are some of the things that hold people back from full commitment to a life that honors Jesus? Let's dig in...

I remember going to Boy Scout camp one summer. When all the scouts arrived, immediately they were taken to the waterfront and told to get into swimming trunks. The instructor told us that we were going to take a swimming test by jumping in to the murky deep lake and swimming some predetermined length. If we could swim there...turn around...swim back using the backstroke...and float for 1 minute...we would be awarded our swimming badge and could use the pools and watercraft all summer long. If not, we were considered a "white level" swimmer and were not allowed near any pools or the lake. I was not a strong swimmer (and still not today) so I decided during the trials that I would not even jump in. That water was deep! Who knew what might be lurking under the surface! What if I sank to the bottom...got a cramp...swallowed that murky stuff...couldn't float...what if I.... you get the point. I didn't do it. All summer long I sat on the bank of the lake and watched all my friends have the summer of their lives while I reaped the results of my fears.

I think a lot of us live that way today. The reason we don't totally "sell out" to God is because we are afraid to... What if He won't catch me if I fail? I can't see around the next corner...what if I am ruined? What happens if I start to drown...how will I know He's there? All these fears go through our minds. So we sit on the banks of life and watch our friends have all the great experiences. It's time to jump in.

What is God calling you to do? What do you know you are supposed to risk, try, or challenge yourself with? What are you afraid of? Rejection? Failure? Not knowing enough? Not being enough? Still running from a past? I've got good news for you...if you want to get to the land of "Sold Out"... if you want to really live...here are two words that you HAVE to grab a hold of...

total trust.

Easier said than done in many cases.... But I see so many people who trust God only until they start to sink a little...and then they begin to flail...and then begin to sink. Put simply...they give up because they can't give up control of their lives to God.

He's stronger than any current...able to hold us up when we sink...hold back what lives just under the murky water of life... He gives us reason to keep swimming...

That summer, I didn't sell out to the idea that I could pass the test. I missed out. Are you tired of missing out on what God has for you in your life? Quit wondering and start trusting. You'll be an ace swimmer in no time.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Friday - Prayer Day!

2008-08-22T05:59:00.000-07:00

Today let's pray for those that are hurting relationally. Pray for those that are challenged by broken relationships, misunderstandings, or estrangement. Sometimes it seems that we are hurt by those that we have trusted... it is my prayer that God will heal the broken heart and restore them to fulfill their God-potential.

Maybe this is you today.

A divorce...a fight with a relative....a challenging child..... whatever the situation is...let's pray today that those that are carrying that deep hurt get the strength and grace from God to overcome this situation...and become stronger as a result of it.

See you this weekend,
Pastor Brian

Thursday - August 21, 2008

2008-08-21T03:42:00.000-07:00

Somehow Form a Family

Marybeth Whalen

“A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling. God sets the lonely in families.” Psalm 68:5-6a (NIV)

Devotion:

Author’s Note: This devotion is not written to endorse divorce, but to encourage those caught in the pain of it.

Blended families are everywhere, in every shape and size. Perhaps you belong to a blended family, either through your extended family or your immediate one. Statistics show that most people reading this are part of a blended family – facing the unique challenges and struggles blended families face. Is it possible for blended families to work through all of this and enjoy happiness?

This Christmas I received a framed photo from my mother-in-law. Because my husband’s parents are divorced, I have two mothers-in-law. But this gift came from my husband’s stepmother. It was a framed group photo of all of us from our beach trip this summer — our family, his dad and stepmom, her daughter and her family, and my husband’s sister and her family. Eleven grandchildren dotted the beach as we all squeezed into the photo. As I studied the photo, I realized that it is a testimony to God’s ability to somehow form a family against all odds.

When I first met my husband 18 years ago, his family was still navigating through the uncharted territory of bringing together three teens from two different families and learning to live in some sort of harmony. Though Curt had left for college, his sister and step-sister remained behind and had some turbulent years as these two girls fought and schemed and cried. I know that those years were difficult for his stepmother and father as well. They questioned their decisions and wondered if they would all live through it.

But they also did something else which I have had the privilege of watching through the years. They sought the Lord. They practiced grace and exercised forgiveness. They turned the other cheek when feelings got hurt. They kept promises that were painful to keep. They demonstrated a love they didn’t always feel. They got stronger as a result of their struggles. They knew that God would work through their obedience, their prayers and their commitment. And, in looking at that photo, I know that He did.

I also grew up in a blended family - I am a stepchild. I know the struggle of having a parent in the home who was not your “real” parent. I know the resentments that can creep in, and have felt the pain of loss when broken relationships fragment families. And yet, I also know the joys and blessings that can occur from having extra family members thrown in the mix. My horizons have been broadened through relationships I have with my stepfather and his children. Their perspective and background has added a richness and depth to my life that I would have missed. I think a blended family can be a visual record of Romans 8:28 being worked out in our lives, “In all things (even the heartbreak of divorce), God works for the good of those who love him.” I think that helping people somehow form a family brings a smile to the Father’s face.

Dear Lord, help me do my part to bring peace to my family—even when You ask me to lay down my pride and be vulnerable. Help me to trust in Your ability to somehow form a family. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Copied from: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/encouragement/ (August 20, 2008)

Wednesday - August 20, 2008

2008-08-20T02:58:00.000-07:00

Extreme Makeover Meets the Real World

By Kelli Regan, She Speaks! Graduate

“Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.” Galatians 6:10 (NIV)

Devotion:

About a year ago, a family in my community received a new home courtesy of ABC’s hit show Extreme Makeover: Home Edition. For a week, construction professionals and good-hearted volunteers worked side-by-side as the thrill of Hollywood filled the air. Local news crews descended on the scene. Police officers controlled the throngs of spectators.

Excitement bubbled everywhere I went. Even my kids came home from school abuzz with tales of who knew the recipient family, whose dad was a worker at the site, and who (gasp!) had actually met Ty Pennington!

At the end of the week, amid thousands of cheering people, the family shouted those famous words, “Bus driver, move that bus!” and a magnificent mini-mansion was revealed. It was glorious.

Fast forward almost exactly one year later. Literally right around the corner from this Extreme Makeover was another home, with another family in overwhelming need.

A single mother needed to quickly sell her ex-husband’s house after his recent death. But it was badly run down, and an open house was scheduled for just two weeks away. Overwhelmed by the task at hand, she sent out a call for help to our church family. Soon dozens of volunteers—armed with toolboxes, yard tools and paint brushes—arrived. Side-by-side they hammered, sawed, spackled, painted, repaired, vacuumed, dusted, raked, mulched and more! And when it was done, it was glorious. I know because I was there.

Arriving on the last day, I gazed at the sparkling house and was awed by my brothers and sisters in Christ who had selflessly and immediately joined together to do what seemed a daunting task with an impossible deadline.

As I worked in the quiet of the front yard, the official Extreme Makeover home loomed in the distance as a startling counterpoint. Sure it’s spectacular, but it’s fantasy—a wood, shingle and glass lottery ticket. Our life’s problems are rarely, if ever, solved so extravagantly and beautifully.

At my friend’s house we had experienced an extreme home makeover in the real world. We saw what it looks like when we love one another as Jesus commanded. We saw what the Master Carpenter meant when He said, “Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples” (John 13:35, NLT). Without cameras, celebrities, front-page stories or cheering crowds they offered hard work, a helping hand, and even a shoulder to cry on.

Our group of volunteers is special, but not unusual. Every day church families everywhere join together to do this very thing. We don’t do it for fame or recognition. We do it because that’s what the Bible tells us to do.

When I drove home that final day, the newly-planted For Sale sign silently proclaimed our glorious transformation. As it faded in my rear view mirror, I realized the most life-changing makeovers don’t happen in the glow of the spotlight, but in the quiet of our own hearts with God spearheading the effort.

Dear Lord, thank You for the example of love we have in Jesus. Forgive me for putting my needs above the needs of others. Help me to be more loving so I can respond selflessly and generously to my brothers and sisters in Christ. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Copied from: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/encouragement/ (August 19,2008)

Tuesday - August 19, 2008

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I chose today's devotional for you because this is something that I run into every now and again. Sometimes prayer circles become gossip corners...have you ever experienced this?

Pastor Brian

Godly Talk or Gossip?

Melanie Chitwood

“Tell the older women to behave as those who love the Lord should.

They must not gossip about others or be slaves of wine.

They must teach what is proper.” Titus 2:3 (CEV)

Devotion:

Have you ever said words such as: “I’m just telling you this so you will pray for her,” or “I’m really not supposed to share this; just don’t tell anyone else.” Truthfully, I’ve been guilty of trying to hide gossip with words like this, but God has really been convicting me lately about my words. Specifically, God is challenging me to speak godly words. Now that this subject of godly words is on my heart, it seems that God is bringing verses and life-lessons about this topic wherever I turn.

As I drove home from Bible study, I realized that God had used my friend Debbie that night to deliver one of those life-lessons about godly words. Out of all the discussions that night, Debbie’s words were the ones that stayed with me. Her words had pointed me to a deeper understanding of God, so much so that I wrote them in my journal and even shared them with another friend.

Over the ten years I’ve know her, I’ve learned many lessons about godly words from Debbie. First, I’ve never heard her gossip about another woman. The definition of gossip is “idle talk; rumor; talk of a personal, sensational, or intimate nature.” In Titus 2:3 we women are instructed not to be “malicious gossips.” God knew that we women might struggle with our words. Debbie has never even hinted at gossiping about another woman. That’s an amazing track record.

The second lesson about godly words from Debbie has been the way she talks about her husband and her marriage. We’ve had many honest conversations about our marital challenges. Once again, Debbie has never gossiped about her husband. Even at times when she’s been angry or frustrated with her husband, she doesn’t berate him or share details that would embarrass him.

Finally, one of the keys to Debbie’s godly words is in the amount she speaks. She is neither overly quiet nor overly talkative. The words she says are wise and point me to God. Her example in the amount she speaks teaches me to ask myself: Do I really need to say anything in this situation, or do I just want to hear myself talk?

I’m very much a work-in-progress in this area of godly talk. I’ve spent plenty of time lately confessing the sin of my ungodly talk, and I’m thankful for my heavenly Father who doesn’t give up on me but calls me to His standards. I’ll end with two things that are really helping me in this area. I have a friend who is also working on this and we hold each other accountable. And I have a question that I’m trying to use as a guideline for godly talk: Are my words going to lead to gossip or to God?

Dear Lord, You know what’s in my heart and You know that godly talk is something that’s challenging to me. Lord, I want to honor You with my words. I want to be a woman who can be trusted by others not to harm them, and I want to be trusted by You, Lord, to speak only what honors You. Make me aware of situations or people who might tempt me to gossip, and give me the strength to avoid these situations. Lord, if I sin with my words, convict me, cause me to repent, and to have a change of heart, a heart that wants what You want. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Copied from: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/encouragement/ (August 18)

Monday - August 18, 2008

2008-08-18T02:10:00.000-07:00

In the spirit of this week's lesson "The Princess" ... we'll be looking at some devotions from the female perspective. Don't worry, guys...these will also help you on your walk with Christ as well... I hope you enjoy them as much as I have... Pastor Brian

Cultivating a Beautiful Marriage

Micca Monda Campbell

“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.”

I Thessalonians 5:11(NIV)

Devotion:

Have you ever secretly compared your husband to another man or your wife to another woman? Perhaps you’ve wished they were more thoughtful, spiritual, or a better dresser like “so-and-so.”

If so, let me reassure you. The grass is not greener on the other side. Trust me. That man you’ve got your eye on doesn’t clip his toenails either. Nor does that woman rub her man’s feet while feeding him grapes after a long day of work.

Your spouse and mine are the people we fell in love with. No, they’re not perfect. Maybe all they need is a bit of tender loving care. Instead of comparing and complaining about our partner’s shortcomings, you and I should try nurturing our mates lovingly in the area they need most. We might be surprised by the results.

I heard an encouraging story about an attractive millionaire who married an ordinary woman. The marriage instantly became the talk of the town.

“Why would he marry her when he could have any woman he wanted?” The people whispered among themselves. “It won’t last. She’s just not good enough for him.”

The man took the ordinary woman away for six months on an exotic honeymoon. When he returned, there appeared to be another woman on his arm. She walked with confidence and poise. The countenance of her face glowed with beauty.

“Now that’s the kind of woman a handsome man should be with,” announced the town’s biggest loud mouth.

As the happy couple causally strolled past the gossipmonger, she got a closer look. To her surprise, it wasn’t someone new holding the gentlemen’s arm at all. It was the average woman he had married months ago—completely transformed!

The wise millionaire had taken his common bride away and nurtured her inward beauty. He lovingly spoke positive and encouraging words to her day and night until she believed she was beautiful. The once ordinary woman now carries herself with confidence and exudes the exquisiteness that her husband saw in her all along.

His secret, you ask? He took time to care for and fertilize her confidence until she grew into the grandeur display she was always meant to be.

You and I shouldn’t dream about taking off our shoes and walking around on the neighbors’ grass. Instead, we should try fertilizing our own yard. We might be surprised how it blossoms into a thing of beauty.

Dear Lord, Thank you for my mate. Protect my thoughts and help me to see them as I once did. I’m not perfect either. I don’t want to judge my spouse. Instead, I want to encourage them to be all they can be. Today, I will put away any discontentment, any anger, any lustful thoughts toward another, and work at building a beautiful relationship that brings joy to our marriage and glory to Your Name, In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Copied from: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/encouragement/

Friday - Time to Pray!

2008-08-15T03:00:00.000-07:00

Thanks for being with us this week. As we head into another amazing weekend, let's keep a few things in prayer:

1) Pray for those around the world who are being persecuted for their faith. So many are reaching out for Christ only to be told that it is against the law to do so. People are dying for their faith...let's pray that God protects them.

2) Pray for those that feel alone. I talk with so many people throughout the week that feel totally and completely by themselves. Pray that God would show them that He is with them.

3) Pray for your Internet Campus. Pray for those that attend, lead, and serve.

I'll see you online this weekend!

Blessings,
Pastor Brian

Thursday - "Getting Approval"

2008-08-14T03:14:00.000-07:00

Matthew 3:17 "And a voice from heaven said, "This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased."

I remember playing my first soccer game. I wasn't a great player, but I managed to make the starting team. I was so proud to put on my socks, shin guards, and jersey at all of 7 years old. I took the field and played my little heart out...and what do you think I did when the game was over? I immediately turned and looked up into the bleachers to see if I could spot my parents. I really wanted them to be smiling and proud of me. The score didn't matter...it was those affirming words from my proud parents that meant so much.

That trend continued...school plays...graduation...my choice of a bride...I sought their approval and encouragement. So many of us are the exact same way. We want to make our parents happy with us. We want validation and approval. My question is...whose approval do we really need?

God gave that to His Son that day after His baptism. God told the world that He was pleased with His Son in no uncertain terms. Jesus knew that His Father loved Him...but just hearing those words must have been incredibly special. When our approval comes from God...we feel the same way.

Many of you may feel like God could never say those words about you. Maybe you've screwed up or failed in some way. Maybe you haven't prayed like you think you should...or damaged a relationship that you think is irreparable. Perhaps you've been seeking the approval of a parent for decades and it's never come. Many of us spend years doing nothing emotionally, spiritually, or sometimes physically while we wait for our decisions to be approved by someone in our lives. We put our lives into neutral and sit stagnant. We've got to decide today...whose approval are we after? Should we spend our time seeking the thumbs-up from a parent...or live with the understanding that we seek the approval of God for our lives.

It's my point that we need to please God. Live our lives trying to make Him smile... spend our time learning what He wants for our lives and then doing it. The sooner we realize that the applause that we seek doesn't need to come from the bleachers but from Heaven...the better our lives will be.

See you for prayer Friday,
Pastor Brian

Wednesday - "Love Out Loud"

2008-08-13T03:35:00.000-07:00

Matthew 3:17 "And a voice from heaven said, "This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased."

In the second section of this week's passage, God says "This is my Son, whom I love." These few words say so much about God and His relationship with not only Christ, but with us.

I love the way God is expressive with His love. God specifically told all who were there that day, that He loves His Son. Out loud. It wasn't hinted at or whispered. God declared His holy love for Jesus.

It's interesting how most of us assume that those that we are around know how we feel about them...whether it's a son, daughter, spouse, or family member. That isn't always the case. I once heard a joke about a guy whose wife kept complaining that he never told her that he loved her anymore. He said "I told you I love you at our wedding...if that ever changes, I'll let you know." That's not the way to do it.

I have done many, many funerals. Each time I hear at least one person tell me that they wish they had "just one more day" with the deceased. They just want to tell that person how much they mean to them. Fact is, we aren't guaranteed tomorrow...and neither are those that are most beloved to us. Declare your love, out loud, to those that are most precious. Tell those that are closest to you how you feel...in front of others.

God boldly proclaimed His love for His Son to the world...let's follow His perfect example.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Tuesday - "Listening"

2008-08-12T04:46:00.000-07:00

Matthew 3:17 "And a voice from heaven said, "This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased."

This week, we're going to take a look at this one little verse... if you've been reading the Bible for awhile, you've probably read this verse many times. It says a lot about the character of God and His love.

Just the first 6 words..."And a voice from heaven said..." say a lot about God. So many times, we forget that God speaks to us. Directly. In fact, in this passage, you get the idea that not only did Jesus hear from God...so did those that were in the river as well... God's voice aloud.

Now today, I don't know anyone who has heard the voice of God out loud...but I have spoken with many that hear it everyday during their quiet time. As we pray...we need to keep in mind that God wants to talk to us just as much if not more than we want to talk to Him. God speaks to us through the Holy Spirit. Many call it our "conscience" but as Christ-followers, we know that those nudges we feel are one of the ways that God communicates with us. Today, make a commitment to remembering that God wants two-way communication. Listen for Him just as much as you speak to Him...and you'll find yourself drawing even closer to your Heavenly Father.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

PS: Sorry about the lack of devotionals Friday and Monday...we're back on track now... :-)

Thursday - "Rejection"

2008-08-07T03:05:00.000-07:00

The Reason for Rejection

Inside, the leading priests and the entire high council were trying to find witnesses who would lie about Jesus, so they could put him to death. (Matthew 26:59)

We might wonder how the religious leaders of Jesus’ day could be so heartless as to take Him and put Him to such a quick death. Where was their compassion? Where was their sense of fairness?

Even if they didn’t accept Him as the Messiah, what was behind this hatred toward Him? Why did they desire such a quick execution?

We could take the same question and apply it to the broader issue of why people reject Jesus Christ without ever taking time to consider His claims.

Why do people reject the revelation of Scripture, when in most cases, they have never taken the time to read it for themselves? Why is that people refuse to give at least a fair hearing to the message of the gospel?

Jesus said, “Their judgment is based on this fact: The light from heaven came into the world, but they loved the darkness more than the light, for their actions were evil” (John 3:19).

Someone may say, “The reason I am not a Christian is because I disagree with this or I have problems with that.” According to Jesus, the real reason is that their deeds are evil. They don't want to come into the light, where their deeds will be exposed. Everything else is nothing more than an excuse those people hide behind.

I am not saying that people do not have legitimate questions to ask. I am not saying people do not grapple with some of these truths.

What I am saying is that when people are true seekers of God and they are presented with the answers to their questions, they will believe.

Copied from: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/harvestdaily/

Do you know anybody who has rejected Christ and not investigated the truth themselves? Keep revealing the Gospel to them...but be respectful....allow the Holy Spirit to work in their heart!

See you tomorrow for prayer day! (or tonight for online small group @ 7PM (EST)... www.frclive.tv)

Pastor Brian

Wednesday - "Who Takes the Lead?"

2008-08-06T03:41:00.000-07:00

His Will, Not Mine

He went on a little farther and fell face down on the ground, praying, “My Father! If it is possible, let this cup of suffering be taken away from me. Yet I want your will, not mine.” (Matthew 26:39)

There are some people who teach that we should never pray, “Not my will, but Yours be done,” because it supposedly voids what you have just prayed for.

What nonsense. If Jesus prayed this, certainly we should follow His example.

He gave us the same pattern in the Lord’s Prayer when He said, “May your Kingdom come soon. May your will be done here on earth, just as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10). I never need to be afraid to say, “Lord, Your will be done.”

Then there are those who say that we should only pray for something once; otherwise, we are demonstrating a lack of faith.

Yet Jesus taught His disciples, “Keep on asking, and you will be given what you ask for. Keep on looking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened” (Luke 11:9). We give up far too easily sometimes.

We won’t always know the will of God in every situation. Then there are times when we will know the will of God, but we won’t like it. Finally, there are times when we will know the will of God, but we don’t understand it.

I like what the late D. L. Moody said, “Spread out your petition before God, and then say, ‘Thy will, not mine, be done.’ ” Moody concluded, “The sweetest lesson I have learned in God’s school is to let the Lord choose for me.”

Have you found that to be true? We must never be afraid to trust an unknown future to a known God.

Copied from: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/harvestdaily/11579876/

I've heard it said that we should offer God the contract of our lives and simply sign the bottom. We let Him fill in all of the details... Many of us want to develop our own will for our lives and ask God to bless it...let's reverse that thought... Let's let God's will for our lives be done...

See you tomorrow,

Pastor Brian

Tuesday - "He Knows"

2008-08-05T04:30:00.000-07:00

A Man of Sorrows

Then Jesus brought them to an olive grove called Gethsemane, and he said, “Sit here while I go on ahead to pray.” He took Peter and Zebedee’s two sons, James and John, and he began to be filled with anguish and deep distress. (Matthew 26:36–37)

If I had the opportunity to know my entire future from today on, I think I would pass. I would rather not know.

But Jesus, being God, knew everything about His future down to the smallest detail.

As He agonized in the Garden of Gethsemane, He knew that in just a few short hours, He would be nailed to a Roman cross and crucified. He knew that He would be humiliated. He would be beaten. He would go through a horrendous whipping. He knew the great anguish that was ahead.

The Bible tells us Jesus was “a man of sorrows, acquainted with bitterest grief” (Isaiah 53:3). The Bible also says in Hebrews, “This High Priest of ours understands our weaknesses, for he faced all of the same temptations we do, yet he did not sin. So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive his mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it” (4:15).

In other words, God knows what you’re going through. You have a High Priest—that is, Jesus—who has faced the challenges you presently face. Jesus was in this horrendous, difficult time, experiencing deep loneliness and abandonment by His friends. Yet He went through it.

The next time you face difficulty, the next time you face hardship, the next time you feel misunderstood and abandoned, remember that Jesus already has experienced those things. You have someone who understands you, sympathizes with you, and is there to strengthen you.

Copied from: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/harvestdaily/

That's why Jesus came to earth...to know our pains...to know your heart...

I am praying that if you are feeling defeated...remember that Jesus came to Earth so that you could live a life of victory...stay faithful and God will see you through.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Monday - "Real Joy"

2008-08-04T04:51:00.000-07:00

This week, I'm going to be preparing some future devotionals for the new series..."The Warrior and the Princess"...so this week, I'll be posting some great devotionals from some of my favorite pastors (with a little comment or two from me at the end.)...enjoy!

Pastor Brian

The Real Thing

“But none of these things move me; nor do I count my life dear to myself, so that I may finish my race with joy, and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God.” (Acts 20:24)

Imagine that you have just come out of a wonderful restaurant and had a great meal. You are thinking, “That was great.” Then you happen to glance over at the gutter, where you notice a discarded burrito from a fast-food restaurant.

Are you going to say, “All right! A burrito,” and pick it up? Of course not. You will not eat that thing, because you are satisfied.

You have just experienced the real thing. You don’t want a cheap imitation.

In the same way, when you know the Lord and have been experiencing a real relationship with Him and then the devil comes along and offers you some cheap imitation, you will see it for what it is. When you see who Jesus is, then you see what the world is. But if you are only looking at this world and not spending enough time with the Lord, you will have a diminished view of God and an exalted view of this world—when it should be the other way around.

Everything you need in life is found in a relationship with God. You can discover that the easy way or the hard way.

Are you finishing your race with joy? Or are you going outside of your relationship with the Lord, trying to find some happiness that this world might offer?

I can tell you right now that it will be a dead-end street. It will never satisfy you, because once you have had the real thing, cheap imitations will never suffice.

Copied from: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/harvestdaily/

Is this you today? Are you still finding joy in being a child of God? As you do your quiet time this morning, ask yourself..."am I getting my joy from a cheap imitation?" What is your source of joy right now in your life?

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Friday - Prayer Day!

2008-08-01T04:53:00.000-07:00

Today as you begin your quiet time with God, please pray for:

1) Those that are in pain physically - so many send in prayer requests each week that are hurt or are struggling with a crippling disease. Please pray that God would send healing and peace into their lives.

2) Those that are in pain relationally - There are so many who are challenged by brokenness in their hearts over relationships... whether it's family or friends... pray that true heart-healing can begin and fences can be mended.

3) Those that are spiritually empty - Pray for those that are praying hard...and not receiving an answer. Pray for those that are searching for something and don't realize that they are looking for Jesus. Pray for the people who have given up on God...and know they need to come back.

So many to pray for today... but God is all-powerful...and is everywhere... He will hear you...

Let's pray urgently and expectantly...

Blessings to each of you!
Pastor Brian

Thursday - "Church is the Real Thing"

2008-07-31T03:50:00.000-07:00

John 13:35 "By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."

Once in awhile, I'll receive an envelope in the mail with a key in it. It is usually a local car dealer challenging me to come to their dealership and "try" my key in a new car's ignition...if it starts the car...I'm a winner! If not...I go home disappointed and empty-handed. Frustrating, right? I've never even gone to one of those dealerships with the key in hand because I figure "what's the use? I'm probably just wasting my time."

How many people feel that way about church? How many people finally get the urge to get up on a Sunday morning and try out church again only to find out that what they thought was going to be the real thing...wasn't. As we talked about yesterday...it isn't the building's fault. The church is the people. It's us...it's our responsibility to be the real thing...

What does that mean? When you're here on the Internet Campus or at a local church...be yourself. Genuinely care about people...stop and pray for them if they need it. Give of your time to help. Live life on Monday like you talk about on Sunday...worship as if God were right there next to you (and He is...).

Christians are often called hypocrites or judgmental...let's be a church that defies those tags...let's make a decision today to show others that we truly are genuine followers of Christ...that we are real people that make up the church...and that we love one another as proof that we follow the resurrected Lord.

We can do it... I'm praying that we will...

Pastor Brian

Wednesday - "You=Church"

2008-07-30T03:17:00.000-07:00

Acts 2:42-44 "They devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. 43Everyone was filled with awe, and many wonders and miraculous signs were done by the apostles. 44All the believers were together and had everything in common."

I was driving past an old church's billboard and noticed an interesting sign out front... it said "CH __ __ CH - What's missing?" It took me a couple seconds to realize what was missing from the sign. The letters "U" and "R".... What was missing from Church? You are.

As clever (or sarcastic) as that old slogan might be...it's true. Without you...without me..the church is just a building. Just four walls with some decorations...just a preschool room with toys that lay dormant...just a bunch of empty chairs... We are the church...and that is important for two reasons:

1) We must grow to help others - If we are the church...it is our responsibility to grow in our walk with Christ so that we can help others in their respective walks. If we are going to grow...then we have to learn the disciplines of service...getting plugged in to a ministry. Serving. Attending regularly.... giving of our resources... etc. Each of these facets help us reach the potential that God has put into us...and allow us to help others that may be just starting out. That's the way the church worked in the book of Acts...and still does today. We are the church.

2) We must carry the experience outside the building - If we are the church...then it is our job to carry the values that we learn inside the building to those on the outside. Share the gospel...stand up for what's right...be a light in a dark world...

“You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.” Matthew 5:14,16

We ARE the church...the relationships, growth, and fellowship that takes place within the walls are what defines "church"...not the structure itself. This morning, as you spend your quiet time in prayer...ask God to reveal and confirm this truth to you...and then go out into the world and show those you come into contact with a little bit of the church that Christ had in mind...

See you tomorrow...
Pastor Brian

Tuesday - "The Purpose"

2008-07-29T03:12:00.000-07:00

Acts 2:42 "They devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. 43Everyone was filled with awe, and many wonders and miraculous signs were done by the apostles. 44All the believers were together and had everything in common. 45Selling their possessions and goods, they gave to anyone as he had need. 46Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, 47praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved."

This weekend, Pastor Scott told us that "The church is not all about me." If that is true (and it is...), who is the church for?

Simply put, the church exists to help those outside its walls. Its mission is to take the Gospel of Jesus Christ into the world and share it with those that don't know Him. It isn't programs, or meetings, or even the color of the building... it is about serving God's purposes. How have so many forgotten that?

The church, as described in the book of Acts, was a small group of Christ-followers who met together (usually in secret) to study scripture, pray for each other, and share common victories and challenges. These early believers poured into each others lives unselfishly...always looking for a way to put others first.

Its so easy to get critical and picky in today's churches. We see programs that we don't like...music that's too loud or a different style than we prefer...a pastoral teaching that is too challenging to our lifestyle...and so much else. Are we missing the main purpose of why church exists? Let's really pray about that this morning... have we been too selfish in the church? Have we forgotten why we are connected to other believers and to our community? Have we made church about us?

If so...let's make the turn...this world CAN be reached by the church...it just takes all of us putting others first to make it happen.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Monday - "Salt, Anyone?"

2008-07-28T04:37:00.000-07:00

Matthew 5:13 (TM) "Let me tell you why you are here. You're here to be salt-seasoning that brings out the God-flavors of this earth. If you lose your saltiness, how will people taste godliness? You've lost your usefulness and will end up in the garbage.”

For the next couple of mornings, we're going to pick apart this wonderful verse...what it means and what we are supposed to do about it.

The first part of the verse tells us that we are supposed to be the salt-seasoning that "brings out the God-flavors of this earth." What does that mean? What does it mean to be the "salt of the earth?" I guess the best way to tackle this would be to ask yourself... "What am I doing that reflects the character of God and helps to bring that out in others?"

This past weekend, Pastor Scott showed a video which was very revealing about the opinions that people have of Christians...words like hypocrite and fanatic were thrown around throughout it. Do you ever wonder why people feel that way? God has called us to be the flavoring in an otherwise bland world....but what flavor? Salt, by its very nature, is used to enhance food...not overpower it. Is that what we're doing with the influence that Christ has on our lives? Are we loving others unconditionally to enhance their lives? Are we forgiving when all signs point to holding a grudge? Do we offer help when everyone else offers a cold shoulder? Is your Christ-led life enhancing the lives of others?

This can be a tough self-analysis. Today...look for ways to show God's character (through your actions) to others. Let them see your influence as empowering, encouraging, and Christ-like. Let's really try together this week to step out boldly and live out the behaviors that will bring out the "God-flavors" in an otherwise bland world.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Friday - Prayer Day!

2008-07-25T03:40:00.000-07:00

Today let's pray for a few different things during our time together

1) Pray for this weekend...Pastor Scott Hodge will be our guest speaker and he, also, is an amazing communicator. Let's pray for him as he finishes up the message.

2) Pray for Pastor Troy... as we do every week, let's pray that Pastor Troy has a great time of rest and rejuvenation. Pray that God gives him the vision that we need to reach the world in an amazing and creative way!

3) Pray for the Internet Campus...we're growing every week...but the world is a big place! Pray that those that need to hear the message will connect online with us this weekend!

Those are three big prayers! Thanks so much for being here with me this week. I hope the discussion about romance and priority has been helpful...I'm really looking forward to next week as we spend more time learning and studying together.

Pastor Brian

Thursday - "Priorities"

2008-07-24T04:29:00.000-07:00

In my many years as a married man...I have come to realize that there is nothing more important for my relationship with my wife than time. If I ever hope to be romantic or sincere or worthy of her trust...I need to make special and specific time for just us. No distractions...no agendas....just a personal time set aside to help our relationship grow.

I don't always do that well.

Sometimes things just get in the way...a meeting...fatigue...lack of focus...poor planning... all are culprits in my neglect. None of these are valid excuses. I've learned that romance begins when my concern for myself ends. When I put aside my selfishness and focus only on her...that love that began so long ago grows even stronger.

Many men claim that they are simply "not romantic". My response to them is always the same...you are not romantic because you choose not to be. And it's not just men...women can be the same way... we spend time and effort on what we think are important.

That goes for our spouse, girlfriend, boyfriend....and our relationship with God.

If we take today's devotional to a spiritual level... ask yourself these questions:

1) Am I setting aside a specific time everyday to get to know God better?
2) Is there anything distracting me from my relationship with God?
3) Is my spiritual life important enough for me to change my priorities to make it better?

As we have learned this week...any relationship takes time and effort to make it grow and flourish... We need to keep in mind that if our spiritual development suffers...we are going to struggle relationally with those God has given us to love...

Let's learn together!

Pastor Brian

Wednesday - "The Meant-tos"

2008-07-23T03:47:00.000-07:00

I am trembling; you have made me as eager for love as a chariot driver is for battle. Song of Solomon 6:12 (GNB)

The anticipation of an enjoyable time together...today's verse says it all. You're ready...they're ready...it's going to be an amazing night out on the town. You get picked up only to discover that they're is really no plan at all. He's in jeans and a t-shirt. He asks you where you want to eat and what you want to do. He tells you that he meant to plan ahead...but things were just too busy...and...he hopes you understand. He didn't take care of the plans...but he meant to.

Is that enough?

The third step to romance is finding what needs to be done and doing it. What does this mean? Actually, it's pretty simple. Good intentions are not enough. When it comes to making that special someone feel important...we must actually do those things that we say we are going to do...

Make the reservations in advance...buy the concert tickets...pack the picnic basket...clean your car...get dressed up... and more! Do what you need to do to create a climate of romance! Meant-tos and "It's the thought that counts" just don't work. This is especially important in marriages. We think that our spouse will "understand" if we don't get to it and neglect the details of our relationship. A skipped date night here or a slapped-together experience there are never enough. In fact, over time, these missed details and lack of motivation will actually erode key components such as trust.

Do you have any "meant-tos" that you've been neglecting with the person you love? When was the last time you fully committed to making your loved one's experience the best it can be? When was the last time you handled ALL the details of a time together....

I know you meant-to... It is my hope that you will...

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Tuesday - "Watch Your Words"

2008-07-22T03:58:00.000-07:00

"You are beautiful, my darling, beautiful beyond words. Your eyes are like doves behind your veil. Your hair falls in waves, like a flock of goats winding down the slopes of Gilead. Your teeth are as white as sheep, recently shorn and freshly washed. Your smile is flawless, each tooth matched with its twin. Your lips are like scarlet ribbon; your mouth is inviting. Your cheeks are like rosy pomegranates behind your veil." Song of Solomon 4:1-3 (NLT)

Communication is incredibly vital in any relationship. Many times we forget the power that our words can have in diffusing a situation or creating an environment of understanding. As we work this week on creating romance...let's keep in mind the benefits of choosing the right words.

Look at today's verse...the man here is describing his mate with words that are both detailed and complementary. You can tell in the reading that the speaker has carefully thought out each phrase and expression of love. There are two important tips in this passage that can help us with our own romantic pursuits...

1) Think before you speak - Creating romance starts long before the first kiss. Throughout the day, carefully think through your word choices. Use complements and encouraging phrases. Build up the person that you are with...establish an atmosphere of trust and admiration. The only way to achieve this is to think through how what you are saying will be taken. Don't waste words or talk just for talking's sake...pick your times to chat and make sure that you are using that time to its most effective degree.

2) Eliminate Cutting Remarks - This one speaks for itself...it's hard to have romantic thoughts and tendencies when your beloved is being sarcastic. Playful teasing is fine...but when it comes down to it...the mood should be uplifting and light rather than attacking and painful.

Spend some time today really thinking about this area of romance. Ask yourself...Am I using my words properly to create a feeling of closeness? Or are my words doing more harm than good...

Be honest with yourself...and I'll see you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Monday - "Distractions"

2008-07-21T03:57:00.000-07:00

"If you don’t know, O most beautiful woman, follow the trail of my flock, and graze your young goats by the shepherds’ tents. You are as exciting, my darling, as a mare among Pharaoh’s stallions. How lovely are your cheeks; your earrings set them afire! How lovely is your neck, enhanced by a string of jewels. We will make for you earrings of gold and beads of silver."
Song of Solomon 1:8-11 (NLT)

This week, we're going to talk about romance... You know, the kind of stuff that we are really good at until we get married and then stop... If that doesn't describe you, then good job! Romance is something that we should continue even after the ring is on the finger... Want to know some simple ways to be romantic? Read on!

One of the easiest ways to be romantic is to just be attentive. Pay attention to only him or only her... your entire focus is on the person that you are spending time with. Look at today's verse...the writer of this passage is pointing out the details..the jewelry on the neck...the woman's cheeks...even her earrings! He is paying attention to just her...every detail of her.

I struggle with this sometimes.

I mean, I really want to focus only on my wife...but when I feel my cell phone vibrate and I check it...or I yell answers to her from another room instead of coming to talk to her face-to-face...or I fail to mention when she changes something about herself... I am missing the boat. Romance isn't just about coming in on a white horse with a rose....it is about making the person you are with feel like they are the only one on earth in your eyes. Your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend all deserve your undivided attention. What could be more important than what they are saying or doing?

The huge mistake that many of us married-folk make is that we think that it is ok to let this slip when we get married. This is not the case. Is what your wife is now saying or doing any less important than it was when they were your girlfriend? Is what he is saying worth less than it was now that he is your husband? Of course not...we just figure they'll put up with it.... wrong! Even though it is not always verbalized...people get hurt when they feel like they are put second.

How about you? Anything distracting you today from focusing on the details and desires of the one you love? If so, it is my challenge to you today to reset your priorites...

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Friday - Prayer Day!

2008-07-18T03:55:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

Well, today is Friday and I'd like for you to spend a little of your quiet time praying over the following things...

1) Pastor Troy and his family...on vacation...pray that they are able to rest and relax together

2) The prayer requests from the week - each week the Internet Campus receives many prayer requests from people in need. Please lift them up to God...prayer is powerful!

3) Those that are attending the Internet Campus this weekend... Pray that those that are seeking will find the campus and connect with others online!

Prayer is so important and I value you all coming by here each Friday to pray together. Have a blessed weekend!

Pastor Brian

Thursday - "Hiding"

2008-07-17T07:27:00.000-07:00

Dark Closets
by Fred Alberti, Crosswalk.com Manager of Communities

He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of men's hearts.
1 Corinthians 4:5b

I recently helped with cleaning out the downstairs rooms of our church. We found all sorts of stuff in those rooms… we found electric wheelchairs, Vacation Bible School material from five years ago, pictures, a sofa... stuff that people didn't know how to take care of. So they just put it somewhere so that it couldn't be seen… somewhere that it could be forgotten about.

We sometimes do this with things in our own lives. We do things we know we shouldn't do so we hide them in the closets of our hearts… someplace where we won't have to deal with them anymore.

Maybe it is something someone said or did to us that hurt us. We hide it.

Maybe it is a line in a tax return. We've already received our refund so there is no need to do anything else... We hide it.

But is it really hidden?

Our verse today tells us that the Lord will bring to light the things we've hidden in the darkness.

How about it?

Are the dark closets of your heart bursting at the hinges?

Intersecting Faith & Life: Take some time to do some closet searching this week.

Copied from: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/crosswalkdevo/

See you tomorrow for prayer Friday,

Pastor Brian

Wednesday - "The Face of Faith"

2008-07-16T08:39:00.000-07:00

FAITH PERSONIFIED
by Charles R. Swindoll

Read 1 Kings 17:24

When the woman saw that her son was alive, she didn't see Elijah. She saw the Lord. "Elijah, I've heard you talk about the God of heaven. I've heard you refer to Him in various ways. But now, when I look at this miracle, I know that you speak the truth."

If you wish to be a man or woman of God, it is essential that you face the impossible situations of life with faith, as Elijah did. If you are a young person who desires to live a godly life that will leave its mark upon this world, you must learn early to stand in the shadow of your Savior, trusting Him to work through the trials you encounter, through the extreme circumstances you cannot handle. The God of Elijah is your God. He is still the God of impossible situations. He still does what no earthly individual can do. Trust Him to do that!

Elijah approached the impossible with calmness and contentment, with gentleness and self-control, with faith and humility. As I've mentioned from the beginning, Elijah was heroic in exploits of faith, but he remained a model of humility.

Examine your own life for these character traits and take them one by one before God. You might say to the Lord, for example, "Lord, today I want to do what You say regarding contentment; I want to have a calm and gentle spirit. I don't simply want to call myself a Christian. I want to be known as a genuine servant of God because my life demonstrates the truth I say I believe. Help me this day to face everything and deal with everyone with a gentle and quiet spirit. Help me to be content, even though things don't go my way.

"Help me today with diligence, Lord. I tend to lose sight of the goal as the day wears on. I'm a good starter, but I don't finish well. Help me to do a quality piece of work and not to give in to the mood of the moment.

"And, Lord, help me, when You begin to bring to pass these qualities in my life, not to call attention to them, but just to let them flow out of my life in glory to You. Help me to become Your servant, Your man, Your woman."

That is how we personify a life of faith.

Copied from: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/daybyday/

See you tomorrow,

Pastor Brian

Tuesday - "Humility"

2008-07-15T03:11:00.000-07:00

Who Wants to be Humbled?
Sarah Jennings, Crosswalk.com Family Editor

He also told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous and despised others: "Two men went up into the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, `God, I thank thee that I am not like other men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week, I give tithes of all that I get.' But the tax collector, standing far off, would not even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, `God, be merciful to me a sinner!' I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other; for every one who exalts himself will be humbled, but he who humbles himself will be exalted." Luke 18: 9 – 14

Have you ever picked up an interest or hobby you’d set aside for awhile? At the encouragement of fellow editor Meghan Kleppinger, I revived my love of horse back riding earlier this year by signing up for lessons. It’s been five years since I climbed atop a horse and cantered over jumps as part of Virginia Tech’s equine program. Thing is, horse back riding isn’t exactly like bike-riding – your muscles forget. I’ve swallowed more than my fair share of humble pie as my new instructor “teaches” me skills I already “know.” It seems all the prior knowledge in my head won’t translate to my muscles – not without serious practice. In fact, my experience seems to act as a hindrance – heightening my sense of self-consciousness and upping the frustration factor.

After one particularly frustrating lesson, it occurred to me how often my faith journey resembles these hour-long lessons. I became a Christian when I was 19. The first few years, I had a natural love for the Lord, and I wasn’t too bothered when I stumbled – after all, this was new to me. But after 7 years of following Christ, I find there are days I can explain theology and doctrine inside and out yet actually living out sacrificial, Christ-like virtue feels downright impossible. My spiritual muscles are paralyzed by fear or contorted by sin. My prior knowledge only serves to condemn as I wonder, “How is it I can spend years following the Lord, and yet still wake up such a sinner every morning?”

It’s easy to step into pride’s trap - especially those of us who have been Christian for awhile. We’ve run the race for a stretch, and holiness may seem just around the next corner. Or, conversely, we lose steam as we slip into despair, discouraged and shocked at our sinfulness when we should “know better by now.”

I think we often mistake the gift of humility with this latter struggle. We think if we hate ourselves enough, somehow it’ll make us better Christians. In the process, we throw out the good with the bad and find ourselves running – or riding – on empty. But my father once explained humility to me like this: Humility is the antidote for both pride and despair because humility is the simple act of acknowledging who you are in relationship to God.

Imagine yourself standing in the Presence of God. Pride instantly melts away as His beauty, purity, and glory overwhelms our small, sinful selves. Yet Scripture tells us that God loves us as His own children – so we have no right to despise ourselves, no matter how flawed, because God Himself loved us enough to die for us. Our job is simply to acknowledge the truth of who we are today, no more and no less. Once we embrace genuine humility, the door opens for God to do great things through us

Copied from: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/crosswalkdevo/

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Monday - "Doubt"

2008-07-14T02:29:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

This week I am taking my summer vacation... so the devotionals will be some of my personal favorites from around the web. I hope that you benefit from their wisdom as much as I have...

Here's this morning's thought from Greg Laurie...

When We Doubt

“Now we see things imperfectly as in a poor mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity. . . .” (1 Corinthians 13:12a)

Oswald Chambers said, “Doubt is not always a sign that a man is wrong. It may be a sign that he is thinking.”

There is a difference between doubt and unbelief. Doubt is a matter of the mind. Unbelief is a matter of the heart. Doubt is when we cannot understand what God is doing and why He is doing it. Unbelief is when we refuse to believe God’s Word and do what He tells us to do.

We must not confuse the two.

Remember the discouraged disciples on the Emmaus road? In their minds, Jesus had failed in His mission and had been crucified. Jesus joined them on that road and began to speak with them.

In the end, they said, “Didn’t our hearts feel strangely warm as he talked with us on the road and explained the Scriptures to us?” (Luke 24:32).

God dealt with their doubt through His Word. And God will deal with your doubt through His Word. When you are facing doubt, that is not the time to close the Bible. That is the time to open it and let God speak to you.

Maybe you have been doubting God’s ways in your life. Maybe you have been asking “why” a lot lately. Maybe His timing doesn’t seem to make any sense.

The Bible says, “All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God knows me now” (1 Corinthians 13:12b).

It all will be resolved in that final day when we stand before God. God doesn’t ask us to understand everything. He asks us to trust Him and follow Him.

Copied from http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/harvestdaily/

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Friday - Prayer Day!

2008-07-11T03:15:00.000-07:00

Good morning! As we spend some time alone with God today, let's lift up these in prayer:

1) Pray for this weekend. People are thinking about coming to church for the first time or returning from a long time away...pray that they convince themselves that reconnecting to church is the right thing to do

2) Pastor Troy and his family are traveling on vacation. Please pray for safe travel for them as well as a time for them to recharge and relax.

3) Scott Williams from Lifechurch.tv will be speaking here this weekend. He is an incredible leader and could use your prayers as he works on his message

4) The Internet Campus....your campus....pray for a technical glitch-free weekend.

5) The Internet Campus volunteers and leaders - pray for us to do what God has called us to do

I am praying for each of you that read this devotional so faithfully. Thanks so much for spending this time here daily...I hope that these devotionals are helping you as you continue (or start) your walk with Christ.

Blessings,
Pastor Brian

Thursday - "Real Life"

2008-07-10T02:32:00.000-07:00

In the world of computing, once in awhile you see the acronym WYSIWYG (pronounced: wizz E wig). This stands for "What You See Is What You Get"... The program has been written so that whatever you are typing into an application or document is exactly what someone might see on the screen or out of the printer. No surprises or changes...you know exactly what to expect.

As we wrap up our look at being authentic..."naked" and real...I want you to think about this question... how many real people do you know? How many of your friends and family would you consider to be WYSIWYG?

In this week's scripture from John...Jesus is the perfect example of being real. He didn't pretend to be someone He wasn't...He didn't bend the truth to project an image...and He didn't allow the opinions of those around Him to change His way of doing things. Jesus is genuine. He got down on his hands and knees and scrubbed the feet of the men He was pouring His life into. A perfect example of leadership, humility, grace, and servanthood. Why was this so easy for Christ to do? Because it was who He is....

Pretending to act like somebody you aren't requires too much valuable energy. It distorts your thinking, ruins your ability to have authentic relationships, and forces you to remember which persona goes with which group of people. Lies develop...trust breaks...and people begin to attach themselves to the you from your brain rather than the you that's in your heart.

Dare to be different. Shed the artificial skin and embrace the way the all-knowing Christ created you to be. The Bible calls us "wonderfully made" and a "masterpiece". Why cover up God's handiwork with a cloud of fakery and deceptiveness. It make take some digging to find the real you again...but it's worth it. Discover who God made you to be and live it out...be real.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Wednesday - "Dirty Feet"

2008-07-09T03:17:00.000-07:00

John 13:2
"The evening meal was in progress, and the devil had already prompted Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. 3 Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God; 4 so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. 5 After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples' feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.
6 He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, "Lord, are you going to wash my feet?"
7 Jesus replied, "You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand."
8 "No," said Peter, "you shall never wash my feet."
Jesus answered, "Unless I wash you, you have no part with me."
9 "Then, Lord," Simon Peter replied, "not just my feet but my hands and my head as well!"

If we're going to be totally "naked" about our spiritual life...we've got to answer the question: Do we get it? Do we realize what Jesus was teaching us in this passage?

If you were sitting there with the disciples...and you had seen all of the miracles and wonders that Jesus Christ had done around the area...would you have let your Creator wash your feet? To get down on His holy knees and scrape the earth off your toes? Most of us would be like Peter...to nearly insist that Christ shouldn't lower Himself to do this... but we'd miss the entire "naked" illustration.

Jesus was demonstrating His purpose for coming.... we should connect, serve, and love. All three were visible that evening through one act. We read in today's passage that if Peter had denied Jesus this opportunity, he would have been denying his connection with Christ. You can almost see the light bulb going off in Peter's mind...once he understood what Jesus was trying to do, he embraced it wholeheartedly. Peter wanted to be bathed in Christ's love and follow His example!

Do you understand why Jesus demonstrated this level of servanthood and love? He did it to not only show YOU that He loves you...but for you to show others. You may not wash any feet today...but you can put yourself in a servant's position...giving up your pride so that others can feel the love the Jesus has for them. We live in a world of dirty feet. Who's ready to grab the basin and towel, follow the example, and change things?

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Tuesday - A Naked Heart

2008-07-08T03:08:00.000-07:00

A note from Jesus this morning...and our response...

FROM THE FATHER'S HEART
My child, I am not the author of fear. Though My life was threatened many times, I was never afraid. Even when death called Me, My life was not taken by My enemy. I willingly gave My life in exchange for you. With boldness and assurance I completed every task necessary for My mission. Many recognized My authority because of My Father’s boldness in Me. Remember, when your knees are knocking, and your hands are trembling, My boldness is yours for the asking.

A GRATEFUL RESPONSE
Your words were like daggers that pierced the heart. One command quieted a hurricane or raised the dead. One discerning statement embarrassed and infuriated Your accusers. Your teaching confused the most intellectual. I praise You, Lord, for Your example of boldness.

SIMPLE TRUTH

When faith comes in, fear goes out.
When Jesus had finished saying these things,
the crowds were amazed at his teaching,
because he taught as one who had authority.
Matthew 7:28
Author: Rebecca Barlow Jordan
(Copied from http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/dailypresence/)

When I read this great devotional, it hit me. Jesus Christ doesn't care if we screwed up...or failed...or dropped the ball... He will always be there...an authentic heart that welcomes us back and strengthens us when we call on Him. Today, I challenge you to get naked before God. Expose your weaknesses, your failures, and your struggles to Him... He will be there. That's why He came down from Heaven. For us. For you.
Live in faith..not fear.
See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Monday - "Serving"

2008-07-07T03:42:00.000-07:00

This week we're going to talk about being real...genuine...authentic. I can think of no better way to kick off the week then this verse:

John 13:1-17
1 It was just before the Passover Festival. Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.
2 The evening meal was in progress, and the devil had already prompted Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. 3 Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God; 4 so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. 5 After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples' feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.
6 He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, "Lord, are you going to wash my feet?"
7 Jesus replied, "You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand."
8 "No," said Peter, "you shall never wash my feet."
Jesus answered, "Unless I wash you, you have no part with me."
9 "Then, Lord," Simon Peter replied, "not just my feet but my hands and my head as well!"
10 Jesus answered, "Those who have had a bath need only to wash their feet; their whole body is clean. And you are clean, though not every one of you." 11 For he knew who was going to betray him, and that was why he said not every one was clean.
12 When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place. "Do you understand what I have done for you?" he asked them. 13 "You call me 'Teacher' and 'Lord,' and rightly so, for that is what I am. 14 Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another's feet. 15 I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. 16 Very truly I tell you, servants are not greater than their master, nor are messengers greater than the one who sent them. 17Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.

Take some time this morning and meditate on this verse. Reread it. Ingest it. When you get home tonight...please read it again.

Each time you do so, ask yourself these questions... am I modeling this? Am I getting "naked" by putting myself in a position where I am a servant to others?

Tough questions...but we've got to be real if we are going to continue our walk with Christ.

It is my prayer that you will enjoy the freedom that comes from living an authentic life...

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Friday - Prayer

2008-07-04T12:45:00.001-07:00

To those reading from the United States...Happy Independence Day! To those that aren't...happy 4th of July!

Thanks for being with us this week as we've looked at kindness. It is my prayer that each of you actively pursue kindness this week...growing more like Christ as a result. As we head into the weekend, let's pray for the following:

1) Pray for this weekend as we start the new series, "My Naked Church.com"
2) Pray for Pastor Troy as he travels back from Orlando. Pray for his continued healing from his back surgery.
3) Pray for the volunteers and leaders on the Internet Campus
4) Pray for those that will hear the message this weekend and come face to face with accepting Christ for the first time..pray that they follow the nudge of the Holy Spirit and accept Jesus as Lord and Savior
5) Pray for all of those who submitted prayer requests throughout the week

Thanks again for staying with me this week...see you on the Internet Campus!

Pastor Brian

Thursday - "A Reflection"

2008-07-03T01:04:00.000-07:00

Ephesians 4:32 (NLT)
“32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.”

I have learned many truths in my life and I'd like to share one with you this morning...the mirror never lies. No matter how hard we try to hide the extra 10 pounds or the gray hair...the reflection we see in the mirror is what the world sees us to be. As a Christ-follower, we face that same type of situation.

When you are dealing with someone in your life...relationally, spiritually, emotionally, etc... the world is watching you. People want to know how a Christian deals with the same stresses that they are going through. They wonder if we are different in some way...unique...Christ-like. When we are, they will probably want to know how to become like Christ themselves. When we're not...people see a hypocrite. I'd like to put it in kinder terms than that...but that's the label that many non-Christians place on people that aren't walking the talk.

Let's be different. Stand out. Let's be the direct reflection of the God we serve... put on qualities like forgiveness, hope, love, strength, peace, patience, self-control, and grace. Just like we talked about yesterday...let's demonstrate the character of Christ (even if we don't FEEL like they deserve it...) The world needs us to be Christ-like. One of the greatest legacies we can leave behind is kindness demonstrated through the imitation of our Savior.

Are you in?

Pastor Brian

Wednesday - "Forgiveness"

2008-07-02T03:20:00.000-07:00

Ephesians 4:32 (NLT)
“32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.”

Forgiveness can be a challenging form of kindness. Many of us refuse to show it because of the damage that was done to us. We think to ourselves that the person hasn't "earned" it....or doesn't "deserve" it. While this might be the case...it shouldn't stop us from extending forgiveness. Why? Simply because Jesus has forgiven us.

Think about your day yesterday. Were you short with somebody? Find yourself telling a little white lie? Raise your voice? Get impatient? Lose your temper? Forget to pray? Make a selfish decision? (I could go on...but I think you get the idea...)

Truth is...God will forgive you if you ask Him...for all of that.

Why can't we forgive those that have wronged us? Why can't we extend that level of kindness?

That's my challenge to you this morning... someone you know needs you to forgive them. A parent...a friend...a brother...you know who they are...

Make the decision to extend forgiveness to someone who has needed it for awhile... they haven't asked for it... you might not feel they deserve it... but we serve a God who has forgiven us...

God is so kind and loving...let's be that for someone else today.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Tuesday - "Tenderheartedness"

2008-06-30T19:29:00.002-07:00

Ephesians 4:32 (NLT) “32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.”

In our efforts this week to be kind, we are learning there is much more to it than just being nice. If we want be more like Christ, that are two key components to our character that are required: compassion and empathy.

Compassion means caring at a much deeper level than just kindness... it is much more than just being nice. It requires us to get actively involved in the lives of those Christ has put in our path. Unfortunately, we live in a world where compassion is uncommon. Just like in the story of the good Samaritan, many of us choose to walk on the other side of the road rather than help those that need our help. If we are going to be more like Christ, we have to care for people from our hearts not just from our minds and our wallets. Jesus said loving others is one of the key characteristics of a Christ follower. It is up to us to show kindness through compassion to those that need it.

The other component, empathy, is very similar. Most people confuse this with sympathy but it isn't. It goes far deeper than that. Empathy involves us putting ourselves in the shoes of another... to feel what they feel and to experience what they experience at their emotional level. This is the very definition of tenderheartedness. It requires us to be emotional, connected, and dedicated to helping other people get through a crisis in their lives. Unfortunately, this is rarely seen.

Most people these days don't want to get involved. Let's dare to be different! Let's show kindness to those around us by demonstrating our compassion and empathy to the challenges that face them regardless of possible personal benefit. Remember, Jesus made the ultimate sacrifice for us...it's the very least we can do to reciprocate that level of love and tenderheartedness in the lives of those that we are blessed to cross paths with.

WRITE it down: In your journals, write down the name of a person who has stepped into your life and shown compassion and or empathy. As you pray, thank God that they cared enough about you to show this level of kindness. If you have never experienced this, in your journal, write a prayer asking God to help you be that person in the life of someone who needs it.

See you tomorrow.
Pastor Brian

Monday - "Action vs. Words"

2008-06-29T22:12:00.001-07:00

Ephesians 4:32 (NLT)
“32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.”

It seems as though many of us start the day with good intentions. We wake up...do our quiet time...write in our journals...and pray. We get dressed and head into our day believing that this will be the day we act more like Christ.

Then you hit traffic...and the stress begins.

Our mood changes...our blood pressure increases...we start snapping at people for no reason. We know we should be kind, but life keeps changing that. We intend on building up others with our words, but instead the words prove to be weak. It takes more than words, it takes a commitment to act on those words.

For some this commitment is daily... for others, we need to be reminded of this every hour. What we do speaks so much louder than what we say. What message are you sending with your actions? Do you come off as patient and forgiving? Or do people see you as harsh and critical? Would your closest friends consider you kind? This week, commit to making sure that your actions line up with your words. Let's learn to walk the talk together.

WRITE IT DOWN: In your journal, ask God to show you specific times when what you're doing doesn't line up with what you're saying. Tonight, when you get home, review your day. Were you kind? If no, make a list of things you can do better tomorrow to show kindness.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Thursday - Fear of Relationship Change

2008-06-26T02:19:00.000-07:00

Philippians 2:17-18 "...just like your faithful service is an offering to God. And I want all of you to share that joy. 18 Yes, you should rejoice, and I will share your joy."

When we share our story with others there is a real risk of our relationship with them changing. Now there are, of course, two ways of looking at this... positive change or negative change. So many of us assume that people are going to do what we talked about yesterday and reject us...thus causing negative change. However, I have found the opposite to be true in many cases:

1) People will appreciate the fact that you care about them enough to share what God is doing in your life. Your relationship with them will actually grow deeper with them...not more awkward or shallow. In this day and age, finding someone that actually wants to get involved in the life of another gets harder and harder...you can be that light in the otherwise dark world.

2) You may develop the reputation as the "religious" person in the family. Is that a bad thing? In my house, I am the one that people know as the one "connected" to God. All that means is that in times of crisis, I am the one they will gravitate towards when they need prayer or care. I've got to tell you... I LOVE that role. The great thing is that I can share my story with others and they can fulfill that role in the family right alongside me.

Overall, sharing your story will indeed change the relationship dynamic...but the question is...who is it more important to please...people or God?

Food for thought this morning...

Pastor Brian

Wednesday - Fear of Rejection

2008-06-25T02:32:00.000-07:00

Acts 18:9-10 “One night the Lord spoke to Paul in a vision and told him, “Don’t be afraid! Speak out! Don’t be silent! For I am with you, and no one will attack and harm you, for many people in this city belong to me.”

Fear of Rejection

Many of us don't want to share our story because we are afraid that those whom we are telling won't want to hear it. This might, in fact, be true. However, it shouldn't change our desire to tell the world what God has done in our lives. Think about it. Your story can bring hope, peace, and/or salvation to a life that needs it! Here are some truths about dealing with G0d-Story rejection:

1) Jesus will NEVER reject you! When you are out there sharing your story and bringing hope in Christ...you are being obedient to God and therefore blessed by Him!

2) Rejection is usually temporary. Just because somebody pushes back on you at first doesn't mean that they are going to reject you forever. You might be surprised at how they will come back to you later for a retelling of your story or clarification of how it might apply to their own lives.

Remember, all that you are doing is planting a seed....let the Holy Spirit do the rest!

Have you shared your God-story yet? If so, please let me know how it went! Let's make a big impact for the Kingdom together this week! That is my prayer...

Pastor Brian

Tuesday - Fear

2008-06-24T02:22:00.000-07:00

Great to be back! Thanks for your patience last week as I shared some other devotionals with you all...I needed the time to prepare and study... Glad you are here this morning! Let's look at this morning's verse:

1 Peter 3:15b (NLT) “Now, who will want to harm you if you are eager to do good? 14 But even if you suffer for doing what is right, God will reward you for it. So don’t worry or be afraid of their threats.”

I talked last weekend about some of the fears that we have when it comes to sharing our story with the world... Let's look at each one of them this week...and what we can do to overcome them...

Fear of not knowing enough

Many of us think that we need an exorbitant amount of Biblical knowledge in order to share our story. That simply isn't true. Now don't get me wrong...we should always be striving to learn more scripture... all I'm saying is that you don't need to have that to start sharing your story. If this is one of your fears remember these three thoughts:

a) Your story is all about what God has done in YOUR life. The only thing that you need to be an expert on is you. Be sure that you can communicate this clearly to the person that you are sharing it with. Include important and honest details throughout.

b) You will probably never feel like you know enough. It's like waiting to have enough money before you have a child...isn't going to happen in most cases. Don't hesitate...go for it!

c) If the person you are sharing with challenges you on some things.... be respectful and remind them that you are just sharing what God has done in your life. Tell them that you are living a life centered on your faith. Be honest and admit that you can't explain everything... that's where the faith part comes in.

It is my prayer this week that you encounter someone to share your story with... but don't wait just because you think you need a seminary degree first. God has given you your story for a reason... share it confidently!

See you tomorrow!

Pastor Brian

PS: Leave me a note in the comments with your experiences this week sharing your story! I'd LOVE to hear them!

Monday

2008-06-23T03:46:00.000-07:00

Good Morning Internet Campus Family,

Here's a great devotional from Greg Laurie...I will be back to writing devotionals starting tomorrow! Thanks to all of you for your support this weekend...I was honored to represent the Internet Campus...

Pastor Brian

People Reaching People

^“Yet faith comes from listening to this message of good news—the Good News about Christ.” (Romans 10:17)

It is worth noting that no person in the New Testament came to faith apart from the agency of a human being. Have you ever stopped and thought about that? We can find example after example.

There was the Ethiopian (see Acts 8:26-39). There are many ways that God could have reached this man from a distant country. He could have sent an angel to meet him. Instead, the Lord sent an angel to Philip and told him to go. So Philip went and proclaimed the gospel to that man, and he believed.

Then there was the Philippian jailer (see Acts 16:27–34). God could have reached him in many ways. Instead, He allowed Paul and Silas to be incarcerated and to ultimately proclaim the gospel, bringing that man and his family to faith.

We can think of Cornelius, a man who was searching for God (see Acts 10). An angel spoke to him and told him he needed to meet a man named Simon Peter. The angel explained where to find him. The angel could have given him the gospel. But God chose to use Simon Peter.

What about Saul? While it is true that he was converted through an encounter with Christ on the Damascus Road, his conversion was sandwiched between experiences with two people who influenced him. First, it was the witness of Stephen that softened Saul’s heart and made it receptive to the seed of the Word when he was confronted by Jesus Christ. Afterward, God sent Ananias to follow up on Saul and pray for him to receive the power of the Holy Spirit.

So you see, God used people. And He wants to use you.

Copied from: http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/harvestdaily/

Thursday - "Who Will Go?"

2008-06-19T02:14:00.000-07:00

Who Will Go?

“Also I heard the voice of the Lord, saying: ‘Whom shall I send, and who will go for Us?’ Then I said, ‘Here am I! Send me.’ ” (Isaiah 6:8)

God said in the presence of Isaiah, “Whom shall I send, and who will go for Us?” In a sense, God is still asking this question. Whom shall I send? Who will go for us? Will you go? Will you stand in the gap?

If God’s Holy Spirit were to search among us today, I wonder if He would find men or women willing to stand in the gap. Willing to pray. Willing to be available. Willing to reach out to those who do not know Him.

A lot of Christians will say, “I’m too timid. I’m afraid of this and that.” But I think a lot of Christians don’t really have a burden for those who don’t know the Lord. I think if that burden is burning with enough passion, a believer will work through the obstacles.

That is not to say there aren’t things we should learn so we can share our faith more effectively. But if the burden is really there, a believer will go out and do something with it.

The bottom line is that sharing our faith isn’t really a big deal to many of us. This is why it is so important that we have a God-given burden for unbelievers.

I would rather make every mistake to be made in sharing my faith than to never do anything. At least I will hopefully learn something from my mistakes.

But when we do nothing for fear of being rejected or for fear we will not meet with resounding success, we are really missing what God has called us to do.

Copied from http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/harvestdaily/

Wednesday

2008-06-18T02:13:00.000-07:00

Isn't it amazing the way God works? I've been studying for this weekend's teaching about sharing your story...and "ran across" this devotional to share with you all this morning..

God is so awesome.

Blessings,
Pastor Brian

Moved to Action

“And they said to me, ‘The survivors who are left from the captivity in the province are there in great distress and reproach. The wall of Jerusalem is also broken down, and its gates are burned with fire.’ So it was, when I heard these words, that I sat down and wept, and mourned for many days; I was fasting and praying before the God of heaven.” (Nehemiah 1:3–4)

Alexander McLaren said, “You tell me the depth of a Christian’s compassion, and I will tell you the measure of his usefulness.” How deep does your compassion go? God is looking for such people.

How does it affect you, knowing there are many people who do not know Christ, knowing they are basically on their way to a certain judgment? Does it move you? Until you are moved in the depths of your soul, you will not be moved to take any action.

Nehemiah was a man in a position of great influence and power as he served under the king. He was not a preacher or priest or scribe. He was what we might call a layman today. But Nehemiah loved God.

One day, someone told him about the plight of the Jews and how the city of Jerusalem was now lying in ruins. Nehemiah began to weep and pray and say, “Lord, what can I do about this problem?” After his weeping came working. After his despair came determination.

The devastation of Jerusalem touched him, and he wanted to do something about it. So he prayed and he devised a plan. Then that plan began to unfold.

These are two essential ingredients for effectively sharing our faith. It must start with a God-given burden, leading us to prayer. And then we need to go out and do something.

Copied from http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/harvestdaily/

Tuesday - Riding Out the Storm

2008-06-17T02:43:00.000-07:00

RIDING OUT THE STORM
by Charles R. Swindoll

Read 2 Samuel 12:13--25

David refused to give up. When suffering the backwash of sin, our tendency is to say, "I am through. I am finished with living. Life isn't worth it any longer." But look at what David did: he "comforted his wife Bathsheba." It's easy to forget that she was also grieving. Both of them went through a period of grief. They wept. And then they went on living.

David is once more walking with the Lord as he did in days past. One of the most pathetic scenes on earth is a child of God who sits in the corner too long, licking his wounds in self-pity. It takes as much (often more) spiritual strength and purpose to recover and move on as it does to go through a crisis. "I will go on, I will pick up the pieces, I will get back on target, I will go back to work, I will begin to enjoy my friends again, I will carry on as I did before. In fact, by God's grace, I will be wiser and even more effective than I was before."

David, in riding out the storm, gives us some beautiful guidelines. He prayed, he faced the consequences realistically, he turned it all over to the Lord as he claimed the scriptural truth concerning death, and then he refused to give up. He moved on, relying on his God for strength.

Riding out the storm is a lonely experience. You will never be more alone emotionally than when you are in the whirlwind of consequences. You will wish others could help you, but they can't. They will want to be there, they will care, but for the most part, you have to ride out the storm alone.

Riding out the storm, thank God, is also a temporary experience. It may be the most difficult time in your life. You will be enduring your own whirlwind. On the other hand, you may be the innocent bystander caught in the consequential backwash of another's sin. You'll feel desperately alone, and it may seem that it will never, ever end. But believe me, the whirlwind is a temporary experience. Your faithful, caring Lord will see you through it.

Copied from http://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/daybyday/

See you tomorrow!
Pastor Brian

Monday - A New You

2008-06-16T02:35:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

I am so happy you are here this morning! I am excited to inform you that yours truly will be teaching this coming weekend at our Cooper City campus! Live! I'll also be hosting the Internet Campus live as well! Pastor Troy has asked me to teach about sharing your story without fear...and I couldn't be more excited about it!

What I've decided to do is share some devotionals with you this week written by other pastors and leaders. This will give me a little extra time to prepare...and you get the benefit of different styles of devotionals... I hope you will join me (and pray for me) this weekend! Better still, join me on Thursday night for small group AND the weekend...

Here's the devotional for this morning...by Greg Laurie

Becoming New

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.” (2 Corinthians 5:17)

The Scripture is full of descriptions of the believer’s new spiritual life. God promises He will give us a new heart. In Ezekiel 36:26, God says that He will “give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; [He] will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh.”

God also will give us a new song. The psalmist wrote, “He has put a new song in my mouth—praise to our God . . .” (Psalm 40:3).

The Bible also promises there will be a new self. Ephesians 4:22–24 says, “That you put off, concerning your former conduct, the old man which grows corrupt according to the deceitful lusts,and be renewed in the spirit of your mind,and that you put on the new man which was created according to God, in true righteousness and holiness.”

As believers, our spiritual lives are new, but we still have the capacity to sin. And though we have the capacity of sin, the tyranny and penalty of sin in our lives has been broken. However, sin’s potential has not been fully removed, because we have two natures within us that are constantly at battle: a new nature and an old nature.

As you know, it’s very easy to sin. It comes naturally to us. But the new nature doesn’t come naturally; it comes supernaturally. These two natures are battling, and each day, you determine which nature you are going to build up.

Which will prevail? The one you build up the most. Every time you obey God and resist sin, you are building the new nature.

See you tomorrow,

Pastor Brian

Friday Prayer

2008-06-13T02:37:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

Great small group last night! Thanks to each and every one of you that attend so faithfully each week. Here are some prayers to lift up this Friday as we begin to prepare our hearts to worship together this weekend:

1) Pastor Troy - Please pray for our pastor as he puts the finishing touches on an amazing message for the weekend. Also, please pray that his back pain subsides and that God heals him.

2) The Internet Campus - Please pray for your campus, its leadership, and its purpose. I truly believe that God is going to use the campus to reach the whole world with the saving message of God's Son.

3) Father's Day - Father's Day is a wonderful time to honor dads around the world. I also know that for many, it is challenging. Pray for those that either lost their father or had a difficult childhood with him. Pray for healing and grace.

4) This Weekend's Attendance - Father's Day is notoriously low in attendance. Please pray that families from around the world will join us for an exciting time of worship, connection, and learning this weekend.

Your prayers mean so much to me and I appreciate how we can all come together with a single purpose and goal each weekend...to glorify Christ.

Blessings to each of you as we prepare to celebrate in community!

Pastor Brian

Thursday - Joy

2008-06-12T02:29:00.000-07:00

This morning, let's meditate on these thoughts from author Maxine Moses...

"... weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning." Psalm 30:5b

Sometimes the night (season) seems to last so long. Daylight breaks yet; the weeping and darkness seem unending. Still, you carry on with a smile- though it may be just a façade. Inside your world has crumbled and all your hope seems to be fading, fast.

Then, at last morning breaks through. The world seems so much brighter and your burden feels ten times lighter. Finally its morning, joy has come. Immeasurable and uncontainable joy! It is unspeakable joy and full of glory. Not half empty but full, to the brim and running over -- flooding your soul.

Joy is a most beautiful place that transcends time and space.

“Lord, I thank you for the times of sorrow and weeping in my life. Had it not been for those dark seasons, I would not know true joy which comes from You! Lord, I pray that this joy would remain.”

(copied from http://www.faithwriters.com/article-details.php?id=81438)

Is it morning in your life? If not...hold on, pray, NEVER give up! God wants your joy to return...

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Wednesday "Stress vs. Joy"

2008-06-11T02:41:00.000-07:00

Matthew 6:25 “That is why I tell you not to worry about everyday life—whether you have enough food and drink, or enough clothes to wear. Isn’t life more than food, and your body more than clothing? 26 Look at the birds. They don’t plant or harvest or store food in barns, for your heavenly Father feeds them. And aren’t you far more valuable to him than they are? 27 Can all your worries add a single moment to your life?

28 “And why worry about your clothing? Look at the lilies of the field and how they grow. They don’t work or make their clothing, 29 yet Solomon in all his glory was not dressed as beautifully as they are. 30 And if God cares so wonderfully for wildflowers that are here today and thrown into the fire tomorrow, he will certainly care for you. Why do you have so little faith?

31 “So don’t worry about these things, saying, ‘What will we eat? What will we drink? What will we wear?’ 32 These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. 33 Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.

Monday we talked about how fear of the future can get in the way of your joy.... What about the past and the present? Can they take away from living the joyous life that God intended? Absolutely.

Stress of the Past: So many of us are living life looking at our rear view mirror. We feel like anything that we do today is far overshadowed by what we have done in the past. This is one of the devil's greatest tactics....keep reminding us about how we used to be. Have you changed or matured over the past several years? If so, that is God's work in you. The Bible tells us that we are not finished yet...that God is still working and perfecting our character. Our past is what brought us to today. Sure, we'd like to go back and change parts of it - but we can't. Who you are today is a reason to be joyful...don't let the devil remind you of who you were....you just tell him who you ARE!

Stress of the Present: How can anybody have joy in the world we live in today? Rising gas prices, foreclosure, health, relationships, family...the list goes on. Sometimes we wonder if there is one joyful person left on this Earth. We run into angry people with no hope on a regular basis. I need to tell you today..you can live a life of joy. Today is all you are guaranteed to get. When you wake up in the morning, you have today. That's it. Why live stressed out? Of course there are going to be challenges...but remember who still runs the show. God is still here. God is still in charge. God still cares deeply about you. God still loves you unconditionally. God still promises to provide for your needs. God still sits on His throne in Heaven. God still is all-powerful, all-knowing, and everywhere-at-one-time. God still is...and you are still His. Don't forget that. Our daily joy should come from knowing that we are God's children. There is no stress or challenge in our life that is too big for God. Don't let the devil steal your joy today.

Don't live looking backwards or worry where you are today...make the choice to live with joy. You may have to tell yourself many times today that (if you asked for it) you have been forgiven for past mistakes or that God can handle your troubles now...but that's OK. God is always listening for us to cry out to Him. He loves you so much...what better reason is there than that to be joyful?

See you tomorrow...
Pastor Brian

Tuesday "Selfishness vs. Joy"

2008-06-10T02:56:00.000-07:00

Mark 12:28 "One of the teachers of religious law was standing there listening to the debate. He realized that Jesus had answered well, so he asked, “Of all the commandments, which is the most important?”

29 Jesus replied, “The most important commandment is this: ‘Listen, O Israel! The Lord our God is the one and only Lord. 30 And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength.’ 31 The second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ No other commandment is greater than these.”

I have always heard it said "It is far better to give, then to receive." When I was younger this was certainly NOT the case. I looked forward to Christmas and my birthday because I knew that was the time when I definitely received. I counted down the days till "present day" and ripped open my gifts with selfish adolescent glee.

As I got older, I began to appreciate the idea of giving gifts to others. Sure, opening a gift every now and then was fun, but I took greater pleasure from watching faces as they unwrapped something that I spent time trying to find especially for them. Giving became more fun than receiving. I had matured...become a little wiser... or maybe I had unlocked the difference between happiness and joy.

Giving to others brings us joy. When we give our time, talents, or resources so that others can benefit, we get the satisfaction of knowing that we are becoming more Christ-like. God blesses us with an inner joy that no person or situation can rob us of. Selfishness, on the other hand, only brings temporary happiness. We get...we want more. We want more...we don't appreciate what we have. We don't appreciate what we have...we stress. We stress...we suffer. Selfishness leads to suffering... everytime.

Last weekend, Pastor Troy said that the happiest people at Flamingo Road Church are those that are serving others. He's absolutely right. Want joy? Start getting your satisfaction from putting others first.... let God bless you with the joy that you seek.

Write it Down: Today in your journal, make a list of 5 things that you can do to be less selfish. Pray and ask God to show you ways to put others first today.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Monday "Fear vs. Joy"

2008-06-09T02:34:00.000-07:00

1 John 4:18 (TM) "There is no room in love for fear. Well-formed love banishes fear. Since fear is crippling, a fearful life—fear of death, fear of judgment—is one not yet fully formed in love"

What is today going to hold? If you are reading this devotional at night...what is tomorrow going to be like? Any ideas? I would bet that there are many of you reading this right now that are afraid of the future. I'm not talking about years from now...I'm thinking about tomorrow. How are you going to be able to deal with all of the things that the world is going to throw your way?

How can you have joy when you are afraid? Simple. You really can't. Fear means that faith is not where it needs to be. Your inner joy suffers...

What are you afraid of? Not having enough? Failing health? Success? Failure? Relationship breakdown? Abandonment? Abuse? Unemployment? Money? Bills? Family?

If any of these are the cause of your fear...I have good news. If you are a Christ-follower...you are on the winning side. Scripture tells us that Christ has already overcome the world...everything that you are afraid of is in God's hands. He's already on it.

Everything.

Christ died and rose again so that we can boldly live! We need to always remember that when it seems darkest in our life and we are trembling in fear...Jesus Himself glows the brightest. Remember what we talked about a little while ago... when we are weak..He (Jesus) is strongest.

Take a stand today... Get your joy back... You serve a big God who loves you unconditionally. That should ALWAYS be the source of that never-ending joy!

Write it Down: Make a list of 5 things you are afraid of. Say a prayer and thank God that He wants to replace your fear with faith in Him!

See you tomorrow!
Pastor Brian

Prayer Friday

2008-06-06T02:58:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

Today is our prayer Friday...please spend some time this morning praying over a few things:

1) Your legacy - look back over the devotions of the week. What area do you think you could improve on? What can you change today that would improve your lasting footprint on the future?

2) The Internet Campus prayer requests - We receive many prayer requests throughout the week...please lift up all of these concerns collectively to God.

3) The New Series - "Moods" starts this weekend...a new series that shows us how to persevere regardless of the way we feel. Pray for those that need to hear the messages and for those that are struggling right now with their current mood.

4) Pastor Troy and his mom - Please lift up Pastor Troy. Pray for his strength and wisdom for the weekend. Also, please keep his mom in your prayers...she is still recovering from last week's brain surgery.

5) The Internet Campus - We have grown so much and reached so many worldwide...pray for their continued connection and growth. In addition, pray for those countries and people that we haven't been able to connect with yet. Pray that God allows us to bring the great messages and community to them and make an eternal impression on their lives.

Thanks for being here this week. I am praying for each of you and look forward to starting a great new series this weekend together!

Blessings,

Pastor Brian

Thursday - "Legacy"

2008-06-05T02:11:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

Acts 9: 1 Meanwhile, Saul was uttering threats with every breath and was eager to kill the Lord’s followers. So he went to the high priest. 2 He requested letters addressed to the synagogues in Damascus, asking for their cooperation in the arrest of any followers of the Way he found there. He wanted to bring them—both men and women—back to Jerusalem in chains.

3 As he was approaching Damascus on this mission, a light from heaven suddenly shone down around him. 4 He fell to the ground and heard a voice saying to him, “Saul! Saul! Why are you persecuting me?”

5 “Who are you, lord?” Saul asked.

And the voice replied, “I am Jesus, the one you are persecuting! 6 Now get up and go into the city, and you will be told what you must do.”

7 The men with Saul stood speechless, for they heard the sound of someone’s voice but saw no one! 8 Saul picked himself up off the ground, but when he opened his eyes he was blind. So his companions led him by the hand to Damascus. 9 He remained there blind for three days and did not eat or drink

The conversion of Saul was one of the cornerstone moments in the life of the early church. How does a man go from killer of Christians to champion of the cause? Simple. God wanted Saul (who would be called Paul) to have a different legacy. God knew what kind of an impact that Paul could have and turned his life around.

He still does those things.

As long as your heart beats and your lungs are still taking in air...you can change or improve on the legacy that you will leave behind. God may not blind you on your way to work...but He will show you (through the nudging of the Holy Spirit) what you can do differently to leave a lasting Christ-centered footprint on the future. It doesn't matter what you've done in the past. It doesn't matter how your parents were. It doesn't make a difference how old you are... God sees your real potential...He wants to bring that out because you WILL impact those that are coming behind you. The question is do you want to impact them as Saul-like or Paul-like? I truly believe that your greatest times as a Christ-follower are ahead...and those that follow behind you will see THOSE years as your most powerful and effective.

If you are willing to re-commit to God's plan and God's direction for your life, your legacy will be one that wins people to Christ for long after you are enjoying the fruits of eternal life.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Wednesday - "The Legacy of Sacrifice"

2008-06-04T02:07:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

II Chronicles 29:4-6 (NLT)
4 He summoned the priests and Levites to meet him at the courtyard east of the Temple. 5 He said to them, “Listen to me, you Levites! Purify yourselves, and purify the Temple of the LORD, the God of your ancestors. Remove all the defiled things from the sanctuary. 6 Our ancestors were unfaithful and did what was evil in the sight of the LORD our God. They abandoned the LORD and his dwelling place; they turned their backs on him.

What will your legacy be in the area of sacrifice? When it comes to giving of yourself and your resources...were you generous? Did you do without so that others could have? Who did you put first in your life?

I really believe that part of our lasting legacy includes sacrifice. Unfortunately, our very nature (being made of flesh) drives us to be concerned with our own well being sometimes. But how do we model sacrifice?

1) We give of our resources - God has told each of us to tithe. I really don't know a gentler way to put it than that. He has instructed us to sacrifice or do whatever it takes to put Him first. I know this is very challenging (especially these days...) but I can tell you...it will never be easy. It isn't a matter of more money=more giving. It seems that when we do have a little extra, we can always find places to use it... Giving of our resources requires sacrifice. We may be called to eliminate extra "wants" in our lives so that we can make this happen. We don't give to God because we want others to be impressed or because we think the church needs (or doesn't need) the money. Giving is obedience. If sacrifice is required for us to leave a legacy of generosity...than that is something that we need to pray over and follow.

2) We give of ourselves - What is it about time that seems to speed up when we want it to slow down? We only have a limited number of hours in a day and it's all we can do to get what we need to get done...let alone have enough time to serve others. However, this is what God has called us to do. A legacy of sacrifice means that we need to love our neighbors (everybody) as we love ourselves. Serve those around you...commit to reaching out...allow the needs of people to outweigh the needs of yourself. These aren't just noble goals for somebody else. They are for you and they are for me.

I know that this morning's devotional has been challenging...but nobody ever said that being a Christian would be simple and easy. A legacy of sacrifice...making a footprint of selflessness on the planet makes it a better place. It also makes us more like Christ...and that should be our goal regardless of feelings or challenges that may prevent us from doing so.

Really take some time this morning and pray over this. I am praying this morning for you.

Blessings,
Pastor Brian

Tuesday - "The Legacy of Faith"

2008-06-03T02:39:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

II Chronicles 32:7 (NLT)
7 “Be strong and courageous! Don’t be afraid or discouraged because of the king of Assyria or his mighty army, for there is a power far greater on our side!"

When things fall into crisis in your life, where do you turn? Many of us don't realize that when bad things happen, how we handle them is observed by nearly everyone around us. They don't always want to see how we solve the problem...what they want to see is if we turn to God when things get tough!

The Bible challenges us to live by faith and not by sight...to trust that God is in charge in our lives. As Christians, we are trying to follow Christ's examples of love, peace, grace, and patience. How well we live that out is our legacy...our children and their children will be directly affected by the examples that we leave behind.

It is very easy to tell others "Just give it to God and He'll work it out..." or "Don't worry" ... it is harder sometimes to apply these truths to our own lives. Christians deal with the same stresses that others face...our legacy is taking these stresses, praying over them, and (with faith) leaving them at the foot of the cross for God to handle. People see that...they remember it.

What will your legacy be in terms of your faith? Will people remember you for your faith or for your fear? A challenging question...but one we must answer if we are going to make a commitment to leave our mark on the world for Him.

Pastor Brian

Monday - "The Legacy of Living Right"

2008-06-02T11:10:00.000-07:00

Hello Internet Campus Family,

Sorry this made it up so late today...

II Chronicles 29:1-2 (NKJV)
1 Hezekiah became king when he was twenty-five years old, and he reigned twenty-nine years in Jerusalem. His mother’s name was Abijah the daughter of Zechariah. 2 And he did what was right in the sight of the LORD, according to all that his father David had done.

This week we're going to talk about legacy...what we will someday leave behind. What type of footprint will people see when they think about us in the future. In today's passage, Hezekiah is described as someone who did "what was right in the sight of the Lord."

Part of our legacy is the Christ-like example by which we live our lives. When people talk about you, do you think they used the adjectives - Godly, right, Christ-centered? If not, why not? As Christians we are to live lives which directly reflect God. We need to demonstrate that we know what is "right" to God and follow that direction. Too many times we become somebody different for different groups of people that we hang out with. Our definition of "right" gets shifted slightly to reflect the morals and values of our present company.

Right is right. There is no shade of gray.

If we are going to truly leave a lasting legacy of integrity, commitment, and character, we need to base our decisions on what Christ would do in our place. We need to remember that we affect people all around us everyday. The decisions you make and the words you choose to speak as a Christ-follower are observed and noted. People think that if a Christian says and does those things...they must be what God teaches...and thus, the right thing to do. If that's the case, our legacy must involve learning the right way Christ wants us to live...and executing it daily.

What will your legacy be when it comes to the right way to live?

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Friday "Prayer Day"

2008-05-30T05:12:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

Today is Friday...our opportunity to come together as a campus and pray....here are today's prayer requests

1) Pastor Troy's mom - Please pray for her health. She came through the surgery well and doctors are still searching for the cause of the bleeding from the back of the brain. Please pray for her strength and quick recovery. Updates can be found on Pastor Troy's blog: www.troyandsteph.com

2) Pastor Troy - Pastor Troy has been working very hard taking care of his mom. As you would imagine, he is exhausted and needs our prayer for strength. Let's pray for a supernatural level of energy to return to him.

3) This Weekend - This is going to be an amazing weekend on campus. Please pray that those that need to hear the message do so with an open mind and heart.

4) Commitment Weekend - Please pray that commitment weekend goes well. We are making our 1 year financial commitments for campus development...let's pray that we follow that nudge and allow God to use our resources to reach more people.

5) Beach Baptism - We have several people signed up from the Internet Campus to be baptized. Let's pray for them...the devil will give them several opportunities to back out and not do it. Please pray that they overcome the distractions and follow Christ in obedience.

6) Your Fellow Internet Campus Members - Lift each other up in prayer. Think about how many people will be on the Internet Campus this weekend that are hurting...that need your prayers...

See you this weekend online!

Pastor Brian

Thursday - "Thankful for Me"

2008-05-29T02:45:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

Ephesians 2:10
For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.

Read those words again. You are the best work that God can do. You are His masterpiece. Highly valued...always loved and cared for.

God knew every single mess-up you were ever going to do and created you anyway. You are not a mistake. You are not forgotten.

God loves you because you're you.

Be thankful for that everyday.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Wednesday - "Thankful for my Church"

2008-05-28T02:01:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

Psalm 100:4

Enter his gates with thanksgiving;
go into his courts with praise.
Give thanks to him and praise his name.

I was in the chat room last weekend and I sent a message to Pastor Allen DiStefano who happened to be in there with me during services. I asked him, "Did you ever think that you'd be worshiping with people from around the world online?" That's the same question that I pose to you... Isn't this amazing?

The Internet Campus didn't even exist a year or so ago... but today we are here and connecting people together from around the globe. Every weekend, when you click that button to enter the campus, there are people that don't speak your language...don't look like you...and are thousands of miles away clicking the same button. Worshiping the same God at the same time. Truly...one church where YOU are! That's something to be thankful for.

There are so many stories to share about people who have had their lives changed on the Internet Campus...You heard from Carol last weekend tell her story about baptism and life change...We have people being baptized online and from around the world... In 2008, we have had over 30 salvations online so far... There have been nearly 20 baptized from the Internet Campus... There are 5 regional small groups that are running over 35 total people on the weekend... You can attend 2 online small groups during the week... Giving to the Internet Campus is up... There are prayer requests submitted every day from around the world to the Internet Campus...

God is doing something amazing online.... and YOU are a part of it. Now, that's something to be grateful for!

I believe that there are three ways that you can show your gratitude for your church.

1) Pray for Pastor Troy - A great way to tell God how grateful you are is by praying for our lead pastor. God has brought Pastor Troy to FRC and given him the vision for where we are going. That's no small responsibility. Please pray for Pastor Troy and let God know that you are thankful to Him for providing such a gifted leader.

2) Pray for the Internet Campus team - I am blessed with the calling to lead this campus. I can't tell you how much it means to me to be able to connect and help so many people from around the world. However, I don't do it alone... There is a great team of men and women from around the world that lead our chat teams, our prayer team, and our technical team here in the studio. We also have great small group leaders who take the Internet Campus attendees to a whole other level each weekend! Please pray for Pastor Arturo and myself as we strive each weekend to bring you the best experience possible to grow closer to Christ.

3) Pray for each other - It's amazing to me how much community and connection exists on the weekends. From the chat rooms to the prayer requests, so many of you are making real relationships happen online. Take a second today and lift up those that you attend with on the weekends. Imagine the impact that we can have globally if we know that people from nearly every continent are praying for each other's needs. That's something to be thankful for!

I believe in my heart that the Internet Campus is just getting started. God is doing incredible things online and we have so much to be thankful to Him for. Let's demonstrate our gratitude this morning by thanking Him for the impact that His Internet Campus is having on the world.

Until Tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

PS: If you are interested in things technical (or just want a good laugh or two...) check out my latest project... the WebChurch Podcast - www.webchurchpodcast.com

Tuesday - "Thankful for What I Have"

2008-05-27T02:54:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

1 Chronicles 29:13 “O our God, we thank you and praise your glorious name!

I was sitting down the other day looking through some of my favorite websites that have to do with technology. After reading through a few articles, I came across a piece that I was almost afraid to read. I read that they were coming out with a brand new iPhone! WOW! I couldn't believe it! It was described as having all of these amazing new features and perhaps a great lower price...

I just have to have one!

Or do I. You know, last summer I sat in front of the AT&T store for 11 hours waiting to get the phone I currently use. I remember the day I brought it home...I unwrapped it slowly...read the entire users manual...and showed it off to all of my friends. This would be the phone that I was going to use forever, I thought at the time...

Isn't it amazing that we feel like our new car/house/purse/pair of jeans/etc. has to be upgraded over time? When we get it....it is GREAT! Then slowly it disappears in a box to be given away... My question this morning is this...does it always have to be the latest and greatest to be enjoyed? Why aren't we more grateful for what we have rather than quest after what we don't.

Do you remember the story of the Israelites and Moses? Moses was leading them through the wilderness to freedom...they had escaped the pursuit of the Egyptians...God had provided them a capable leader and food to eat every morning...and how did they respond? Gratefully? No, they wanted meat to eat. Instead of thank you...God was getting the question "What's next?" Were the Israelites grateful...no. Are we grateful all the time? Not usually.

Here's today's challenge... in your journal make a list of 10 things that God has given you. Then say a prayer thanking Him for what He has provided...and for forgiveness, perhaps, for coveting what He has not.

Let's be grateful for God's provisions...He takes such good care of us!

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Monday - What are YOU thankful for?

2008-05-26T02:02:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

Philippians 1:3 "Every time I think of you, I give thanks to my God."

As a Pastor, I am given the opportunity to preside over funerals. As you would expect, most of the people that I come into contact with during the event are sad or crying. I hear terms like "If I just had one more day..." or "I wonder if they knew how much I loved them..." So many people are thankful to the deceased for their impact in their life...only it's too late to tell them.

It doesn't have to be this way... We can tell those that are important to us exactly how we feel while they are still around to hear it! Ask yourself these questions...

Do they know how much I care about them? Do they know how thankful I am for their part in my life?

Bigger than that... does God know how thankful I am to Him?

This week's devotionals are going to be a little different...a little more personal...a little more time spent with your journal taking some inventory of your thoughts.

Today, I'd like you to think about thankfulness. What are you grateful for? In your journal today, make a list of at least 10 people that you are grateful for... Make the effort this week (starting today) to tell those on your list that you are thankful for them. Tell them specifically why you are grateful to them and what important part they play in your life.

Let them appreciate your feelings now...today...be an encouragement to those that mean so much in your life...

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Friday - "Goliath"

2008-05-23T02:46:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

1 Samuel 17:26, 40 (NLT2) 26 David asked the men standing near him, "What will be done for the man who kills this Philistine and removes this disgrace from Israel? Who is this uncircumcised Philistine that he should defy the armies of the living God?", 40 He picked up five smooth stones from a stream and put them into his shepherd’s bag. Then, armed only with his shepherd’s staff and sling, he started across the valley to fight the Philistine.

What is your Goliath this morning? What is the one thing that you woke up with that you just can't seem to beat? Guilt? Anger? A broken relationship? Fear? Financial Stress? It could be one or many of these. Please remember what Pastor Troy said last weekend. There is nothing that is going to happen in your life today that God isn't bigger than. You don't have to carry it with you anymore...Jesus took it to the cross with Him....so that your load could be light.

Friday is prayer day for our campus...please take your quiet time this morning and pray for the following prayer requests:

1) Pastor Troy's mom is having surgery. Please pray for her quick recovery...

2) Pray for this weekend. Pray for those around the world that will experience God for the very first time through your Internet Campus

3) Pray for those on our campus prayer list. So many people need extra prayer in their relationships, their spirituality, finances, and emotions.

4) Pray for your Pastors and leaders at Flamingo Road Church.

Thanks for being with me this week. I would really like to know who is reading these devotionals everyday. Please leave a comment below and let me know your name (first, last, or both....it doesn't matter). I want to know because I would like to pray specifically for each of you in my quiet time. If you have a prayer request, you can submit it at that time as well.

Blessings friends...I am honored to lead such an amazing campus...

Pastor Brian

Thursday - "Armor of God pt. 2"

2008-05-22T04:57:00.000-07:00

Today, let's look at the last 3 pieces of the Armor of God...

4) The Shield of Faith - What tends to win out in your mind...faith or fear? They simply can't coexist. You either trust that God is all-knowing, all-powerful, and everywhere-at-one-time or you don't. If God is in control..why do we have so much stress? Simple...because we are human. Our tendency is to take everything on ourselves...to handle whatever comes our way with our own power. We believe that worry actually changes things. Put on the shield of faith...believe that God is who He says He is and can do what He says He can do... your mind (and your blood pressure) will be better off.

5) The Belt of Truth - Deut. 4:39 “So remember this and keep it firmly in mind: The Lord is God both in heaven and on earth, and there is no other." A powerful verse. There is only one God. That's the truth we are to base our lives on. The problem is that people want to lead you to believe that there is no absolute truth. Relativism has become quite popular these days..the old adage "If it feels good, do it" still holds true in the hearts of many. That's not what scripture says. The truth of scripture states that there is only one God and we are to serve Him with our lives. God is God. What He says is truth is truth. How do we know the truth? Look at the next piece of armor...

6) The Sword of the Spirit - The word of God, the Bible, is the source of so many things in our lives. It's words are inspirational, educational, and timely. It contains no errors or contradictions. It's divinely inspired and useful for learning and correcting. This piece of armor is so important because if we memorize and internalize scripture, we will be able to apply it in our lives as well as help others in crisis. The Bible is God's love letter to us and we should spend quality time each day using it to draw closer to Christ.

That's all six pieces... Let's look at today's three...in your journal, write down three scripture verses from memory (with references). If you don't have at least 3 memorized word-for-word...make an effort over the next couple of weeks to do so. I promise you that God will use those scriptures in your life...

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Wednesday - "Armor of God pt.1"

2008-05-21T04:33:00.000-07:00

Ephesians 6:11 (NLT2) 11Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil.

What does the "armor of God" look like? We are told to wear it to battle the devil's tactics...what is included? It can be found in Ephesians 6:11-17

1) The Helmet of Salvation - We must be sure that we have a relationship with the living Christ. Our salvation decision is the most important decision that we will ever make.... Will it make life easy? Not necessarily...life will still be challenging. After you make a commitment to Jesus as Lord and Savior, the devil will double his efforts to bring you down. But you have more protection and weapons than he can handle...

2) The Breastplate of Righteousness - No matter what the devil tries to throw in your face, when you are wearing the armor of God you are righteous in the eyes of God. This is not by our own doing but by the blood of Christ who sacrificed Himself so that God would see us this way. Through Christ, you aren't condemned...you aren't accused...you aren't worthless...you are set apart and righteous (in right standing) with God...because you confess your belief in Christ's resurrection and trust Him as Lord and Savior.

3) The Gospel of Peace - The foot part of the armor...are you walking in peace? This part of the armor is one of the most powerful. The devil will do everything he can to make your life chaotic...hectic...challenging...We don't get to control what the world throws at us...we DO get to control our reaction to it. When you are wearing the full armor of God...these sandals of peace are there to help us to remember that we are not in control, God is. Let Him handle the stress and worry...leave those things at the cross (and don't pick them back up). Live at peace with your neighbors, co-workers and family... give grace when needed...live out a Christ-like example to others...

Today we looked at the first three pieces...which of these three do you sometimes forget to put on? In your journals, write a prayer and ask God to help you remember that you are to wear every piece...every day... Your life will be richer as a result.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Tuesday - "Strengths"

2008-05-20T05:27:00.000-07:00

2 Corinthians 12:10 (NLT2) 10That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

I once tried to teach my daughter how to swim. We both got into the pool and I placed my hand on her back and held her at the surface of the water. As she started to splash her hands and kick her feet, I slowly removed my support from underneath. She smiled and continued to "swim". It was then that I noticed a change in her expression. She was sinking. The water was rising up to eye level and she didn't know what to do. What was holding her up was gone and she was completely under her own power to stay afloat. She kicked harder and faster but still continued her descent.

Like any child would do, she started to panic. She abandoned the techniques we had been working on and just tried to keep her head above the surface. Her heart rate increased and her eyes began to fill up with tears. She became desperate for someone to come back under her and lift her up to safety.

Sound familiar?

Feel like you're drowning? Debt. Relational collapse. Family trouble. Work stress. Health issues for you or a loved one? It's hard sometimes. Life is tough. What can you do about it?

When crisis comes, many of us act like a struggling swimmer. We abandon what we know will help us in hopes of just surviving. We stop praying...stop going to church...stop giving of our resources... We just flail around in hopes that we will be able to stay afloat for a little while longer. God didn't die on the cross for us to live lives of panic.

What many of us fail to realize is that God never leaves. He is always there with us watching us learn lessons through our challenges that we couldn't get any other way. Today's verse says that when we are weak...when we cry out and feel desparate...we are actually at our strongest. Why? Because it is at that point that we realize we can't do it all on our own. The greatest part of it is that we never have to. God is always there to lift us up and help us to swim again.

Now many of you are asking..."Why do we have to go through it in the first place?" I have found in my years of ministry that crisis teaches us lessons and requires us to practice our faith. If everything went smoothly all the time we would start to believe that we are actually strong enough to go through life without help...without God. That isn't the case.

That day in the pool I never took my eyes off my little girl. When she was weak she could depend on my strength to help her find her way to safety. When we are weak...we have to depend on God's strength to help us. It is then that we realize His power and His grace in our lives.

See you tomorrow,

Pastor Brian

Monday - "Who am I, really?"

2008-05-19T04:26:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,
2 Corinthians 5:21 (NIV) 21God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.

When I was in elementary school, we used to come in on cold days and hang our jackets up on hooks mounted to the wall. It never failed that when it was time to go home...the only jacket hanging up when I went to get mine did NOT have my name in it. Somebody had my jacket. They had my name on my label in my coat. They were going to go home in MY jacket.

My name was on the label. All of the scratches and tears in the jacket were from me...all the stains on the pockets from exploded pens...mine. All of the imperfections...my doing. Someone else was wearing the mistakes that I had made...

I got to go home without all of those rips and tears. I didn't get into trouble for spilling paint on the sleeves or scuffing the leather... I didn't get punished for ruining the zipper or cutting the pocket. Somebody else was wearing my jacket. Somebody else was going to pay the price. Somebody else was going to be punished for my shortcomings...

When God looks at you, He doesn't see the messed up jacket. Jesus put that one on. Christ Himself took the blame and wore your messed up life. He wore mine, too. In fact, I know that even as He hung from the cross, He was thinking of you. He never regretted or struggled with the switching of jackets...He put ours on willingly and paid the ultimate price for our sins...

But He didn't stay dead. He came back to life...and we all got new jackets... Flawless, perfect, and untouched coats... and it's in those new clothes that God sees us...

Through Christ's sacrifice, we all get a new identity...a new chance...God sees us wearing the coat of righteousness through the sacrifice of His Son.

Never forget that. Jesus loves you so much He died for you. Might sound simple...but it establishes our very identity in the eyes of God. What a powerful thought.

Let's have a power-filled day.

Pastor Brian

Friday - My Challenge

2008-05-15T10:53:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

I am posting this early for a good reason. You see, tomorrow, I am off the grid. I will not be on the Internet or E-mail for a 24 hour period starting today at 8:30PM until tomorrow @ 8:30PM. Pastor Troy has challenged members of the staff to fast from technology for a day and concentrate on praying for the weekend. I accepted that challenge and will do just that. Whenever I feel the urge to check my email or look up something on the Internet...I will pray. Who will I pray for? You. The Internet Campus. The world. All of those and more...

Now the Bible cautions us not to brag to others that we are fasting. Please hear my heart...that's not why I'm telling you about mine. I just want you to join in with me.

Here's my challenge to you...will you give up something for a day? Whatever might be distracting you from prayer...lose it for one day. Instead, spend that time praying for God to do big things in your life and the lives of those on the Internet Campus. Are you in?

I hope to see you this weekend online. I am so excited to hear the message and experience Christ's presence with you.

Blessings,
Pastor Brian

Thursday - "Devotion through Prayer"

2008-05-15T00:02:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

Acts 2:42 (ESV): 42“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.”

We have learned this week about devotion and church...our study would not be complete without looking at prayer. How do prayer and the church relate? Three ways:

1) Pray for the church itself - One of the ways that we can show our devotion to our church is to pray. Pray for the leadership, the staff, and all of the volunteers who serve there...pray for the finances, the technology, the maintenance, and the preschool...basically anything you can think of in the church could use your prayer. Pray for each of the 6 campuses...and for those coming in the future. Pray for the vision - 50 campuses, 100,000 in attendance, and 150 million dollar budget.

2) Pray for each other - Another way for demonstrate our devotion to the church through prayer is to pray for the people that attend. Each weekend there are so many people who come who don't know God. They have no relationship with Jesus Christ and have no hope for their future. Pray for them. Pray that God will open their hearts to hear the message of salvation. There are so many attendees that hurt inside...have struggles financially...or just need some encouragement. Let's lift up each and every face that comes through the door...

3) Pray for our lead Pastor - A third way for us to pray is to lift up our lead Pastor...Pastor Troy Gramling. Pray for him, his health, and his family. I remember the message where Pastor Troy talked about the lifting up of Moses arms. Moses had to keep the staff of God raised above his head to ensure victory but was struggling. It took others under him to keep his arms up. By praying for our lead Pastor...we get to keep Pastor Troy's arms up...to support him when he gets tired, encourage him when he needs it, and provide the energy and enthusiasm that the word of God deserves when shared from the stage.

We CAN show devotion to the church through prayer. Are you ready to make a difference?

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Wednesday - "After Church"

2008-05-14T00:44:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus Family,

Acts 2:42 (ESV): 42“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.”

I believe that some of the best time spent around church on the weekend is the time spent directly after the experience with the people that watched with you. What do you do with that time? If you are on the Internet Campus...do you simply close the lid of the laptop and move on? If you attend one of our live campuses...do you just go home? Why not use that time immediately after to do a few things?

1) Eat together - It is amazing what comes out over food, isn't it? Take the time directly after church and spend it "breaking bread" with someone you experienced it with... Some people that you invited to church may not want to go "spiritually deep" right away, but I've found that sitting over a plate of food makes people more comfortable and willing to share what they learned and felt during the worship and teaching.

2) Talk together - Try to make an effort to talk about the service right after it happens. Bring up points that were made, share opinions, have healthy disagreements, etc. Talking sincerely encourages future study in that area as well as personal growth.

3) Pray together - If someone is struggling in your post-church discussion/meal...take the time to not only pray with them, but encourage them by letting them know that you will continue to pray for them. Prayer changes things...when you experience a great teaching...pray that God will help you live out those values learned during the teaching as well as others who might have been challenged by it.

4) Grow together - All of these steps listed above will help all of you grow. When challenges come up, you will have the benefit of processing and internalizing the messages...the more you discuss them with others, the more practical they seem to become.

Take advantage of the "breaking bread" time at church. God has designed each one of us to fellowship and connect...why not enjoy a meal at the same time?

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Tuesday - "Getting Together"

2008-05-13T04:10:00.000-07:00

Acts 2:42 (ESV): 42“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.”

When you think of the word "fellowship", what's the first thing that comes to your mind? Most people, I believe, would be thinking along the lines of a group getting together, whether for a Bible study or solely for socialization with other Christians. Looking in the Bible, we find that almost every single instance of usage of the word "fellowship" is not talking about anyone other than yourself and your individual fellowship (or communion) with Christ. The definition of fellowship in this case (Greek koinonia) is the spiritual union of the believer (you) with Christ.

Still, there are a fair share of instances in which God, through the Bible, tells us about fellowship with others. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 is a great example of our need of fellowship with others. It says "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."(NIV). In other words, it can be extremely difficult on your own to battle the devil's arrows and the temptations of your own flesh, but help is here...with God in charge and others to help you in your walk with Him. When you are in fellowship with others, the help you receive can take many different forms. By setting a good Christian example, others may be able to help you to better give to God all the challenges you're currently having in your life. Those challenges may include everything from a lack of disciplining yourself to spend time with Him to losing your temper too much when tough challenges arise. Another way others may be able to help is if two (or more) of you become accountability partners! Fellowship might just be for the purpose of your having a good, spirit-filled Christian friend to socialize with, or maybe even for God to work through YOU to help the other person you're in fellowship with!

Adapted from the site: www.christianchefs.org/newsletters/1999/09CITK.html

Do you have an accountability partner? A close friend to share your burdens with? Are you staying connected with other believers? If not, make every effort to find them. Your life will never be the same...

See you tomorrow!
Pastor Brian

Monday - "Learning"

2008-05-12T04:38:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

Acts 2:42 (ESV): 42“And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.”

When it comes to church....what are you devoted to? This week, we're going to look at a few things that we should be getting more connected with when it comes to our weekly time of worship in church.

The first is the teaching...the message. What is your state of mind when you enter the church? Are you coming expecting to learn something? Are the shields of doubt already up at full force? Do you really expect God to be there? I believe that our state of mind when we enter God's house directly determines what we get out of the message. It can affect how "deep" you perceive the teaching to be.

Is the message your only touch with God for the week? For many, it is.... we come to church and spend an hour with God and that's it. For some reason we believe that a relationship can grow and thrive when contact is only made one time per week. If we think about the other relationships in our lives, if we only talked with a loved one for 1 hour a week...how deep would the relationship go? We've got to stay connected to God through daily prayer and quiet time...

The third and final thought about the teaching portion of the church experience is application. If we are going to be truly devoted to God's messages through the Pastor...we have to apply what we learn in real-life situations. I know a lot of people who have beautiful notebooks of every sermon preached for the past 10 years...however they are struggling in life. Why? They have the answers in their teaching notes...but the notes on the paper are not the actions of the body. If we don't use it...we will indeed lose it. We come away from a great message inspired...but it means nothing if we don't somehow incorporate the meaningful elements into our lives.

To recap: Want to be devoted to the teaching in church?
1) Come expecting to hear truth from God.
2) Stay in contact with God throughout the week
3) Apply what you learn

That's it....follow these three and you'll find your devotion to church increase dramatically.

Pastor Brian

Friday - This Weekend

2008-05-09T05:15:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

Normally on Fridays we recap the week. Today I want to do something a little different. I would really appreciate it if all of you who read these devotions each day would stop now and pray for this weekend at Flamingo Road Church. Pastor Troy has asked us to pray for him as he prepares for the weekend... The topic this weekend is "The Church Matters" and we are going to be talking about sin and repentance. Please take part of your quiet time today...pray for Pastor Troy...and pray that people that come this weekend will be able to rid themselves of the sin that has held them down for so long.

It's going to be an amazing weekend. See you online.
Pastor Brian

Thursday - "Devotion"

2008-05-08T05:25:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

Acts 2:42 (ESV) “And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers.”

DEVOTION: A decision made once and managed daily.

Who or what are you devoted to? What decision have you made that you have to remember to follow daily? For many it is a diet....or an attitude change. Still for others it is a commitment to enjoy life more...or tell a loved one that you care about them. Devotion is a commitment. It must be managed and maintained each and every day... but it isn't always easy.

If you are a devoted spouse...your husband/wife comes first. If you are a devoted employee...the company takes first priority. Devoted family member? You know that your weekend will be spent babysitting your nephews or helping Uncle Earl move. Devotion requires a few things to maintain.

1) Love
2) Sacrifice
3) Dedication

How does this apply to this week's topic of generosity? Are you a devoted tither? Let's look at the short list of qualifications... Do you love God and put Him first in your life? Are you sacrificing some of your "wants" so that tithing is even a possibility? Are you dedicated to giving 10% no matter what the bills add up to? That's what being devoted to giving means. If God is first priority in your life...just like we talked about yesterday...He has to be first priority in your finances. It's a one time decision managed daily.

I'm praying for each of you in this...have a great Thursday!
Pastor Brian

Wednesday - "Faith Not Fear"

2008-05-07T05:11:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

Matthew 6:33 (ESV) “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”

Here's today's thought....God asks that I have faith NOT fear.

Fear is a great motivator. By great, I don't mean that we like it...or even that it is good...I mean that it is powerful. Fear can drive to do things that we wouldn't ordinarily think of or to avoid things that we know would benefit us because we can't be sure.

Giving is just like that. When we give our resources...our tithe... to God we are basically trusting God with the spending. We are trusting that He will do more with the money than we ever could...but that's not the only way we trust Him...

We are also trusting God to provide for us...to make sure that we have what we need, even if we give that called-for 10%. Pastor Troy said it well last weekend...we trust that God is building us a home in Heaven and that we are going to walk down golden streets when we get there...but we don't trust that we will have enough money to cover the water bill. An interesting thought...to be sure. When we give to God what He calls us to do we must have faith that He will take care of us with our 90%.

What's important to remember, though, is that we don't give to God because we expect something in return...we give out of obedience. What God blesses us with in our faith is by his grace and wisdom. We can't rent God's favor.

Are you stepping out in faith or living in fear? Are you seeking God first with your resources? As today's verse says..."All these things will be added to you" Are you ready?

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Tuesday - "Priority"

2008-05-06T04:44:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

This week we are looking at barriers to generosity...today's thought...

God asks that my priority be Him NOT me.

Haggai 1:2-4 (NLT2) “This is what the Lord of Heaven’s Armies says: The people are saying, ‘The time has not yet come to rebuild the house of the Lord.’ Then the Lord sent this message through the prophet Haggai: 4 “Why are you living in luxurious houses while my house lies in ruins?”

Today's passage is all about priority...who was first in the eyes of the people? Was it their own homes or the house of the Lord? According to Haggai, it was the former. The people's priorities overran the obligation and responsibility that they had to tend to the church.

Our generosity is also all about priority. Just like in yesterday's devotional...we have to decide who gets the "first fruits". Us or God? The Lord's priority is very clear...He says the church. What do you say?

Selfishness is something that many (if not all) of us face. When it comes to the arena of giving, we've got to decide to give to God first before our paycheck gets in our hands. Sometimes we see the number on our check and start to think twice...I could do so much with this....10% is way too much...God will understand...

Is God your priority when it comes to money? This morning...let's do a little digging...let's come to some conclusions... If God IS your first priority....keep going! God will bless your obedience! If not, and your priority is you, I pray that you wrestle with this verse in Haggai and perhaps re-prioritize.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

Obedience Not Need - Monday

2008-05-05T05:15:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

Malachi 3:10 (CEV) “I am the LORD All-Powerful, and I challenge you to put me to the test. Bring the entire ten percent into the storehouse, so there will be food in my house. Then I will open the windows of heaven and flood you with blessing after blessing.”

Why is generosity so difficult? That's what we're going to be talking about this week as we dig into the teaching from last weekend. Today's thought...

God asks me to give because of obedience NOT need.

How do you evaluate who gets your money? What goes through your mind? When it comes to giving resources at church...how do you decide if you are going to give or not? More than likely it is based on one of these three criteria:

1) How much extra money you have
2) What you are feeling at the time
3) What the church looks like where you are giving it.

I talk with people about giving and they tell me something like this..."You know, I'd give more...but I just don't have it, you know? Besides, all this place does is talk about getting my money...that's like, every sermon topic! I mean, look around....how can they ask me to give money to a place that looks like this? They sure aren't hurting for money..."

The problem with this is that none of these three take into account this verse that we shared from Malachi. Notice what God is saying here... "Bring the entire ten percent into the storehouse" Ten percent. A tithe. We are to bring a set portion of what God has given us so that the local church will be able to finance ministry and reach the world. Giving is an act of obedience to what God has told us to do and not based on our feelings or opinions...

A tough statement, I know...but has to be said. We don't give because we "feel like it" or "the church has a need"...no we give because we are instructed to by God. I know what you might be saying...and... no, I don't know your financial situation...I don't understand what your husband/wife might say if you started tithing. What I do know is that we need to make sure that we understand how to be more obedient to God's direction for our lives.

Question of the day: Do you think people give more to churches with less? Why or why not?

Write it Down: In your journal, list some of the barriers you might be facing in regards to giving to God out of obedience rather than need.

It's going to be a challenging week...Let's grow together!

Pastor Brian

Friday - Linktastic!

2008-05-02T02:13:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

We had a GREAT small group last night online. If you missed it, we are meeting every Thursday at 7PM (EST) (GMT -5). Please make plans to join us next week!

Today, I'd like you to go over and read this article http://www.crosswalk.com/marriage/11574211/

One of the first statements made is "The more spiritual your marriage is, the more likely it will be successful and sexually satisfying."....that's what I want you to think about over the weekend...

In your journal, write down if you agree with this statement or not and why. What elements of your marriage are better when couples are more spiritually connected... Don't just write "all of them"...really think about it and list a few.

Don't forget, this weekend we start our new series "It matters" I hope to see all of you online!

I am praying for your marriages (if you are married). If you aren't...I'm praying for any future relationships that might come your way...

Blessings,
Pastor Brian

If that ever changes... 5-1-08

2008-05-01T05:46:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn't want what it doesn't have. Love doesn't strut, Doesn't have a swelled head, Doesn't force itself on others, Isn't always "me first," Doesn't fly off the handle, Doesn't keep score of the sins of others, Doesn't revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end.

1 Cor. 13: 3b-7 (The Message)

There was a man who had a wife. All day long she complained about him not telling her that he loved her... "You never say it...you never tell me you love me!" she cried. After a week or so of this he turned to her and with a forceful tone told her..."Stop bothering me with this...I told you "I love you" at our wedding...if that ever changes, I'll let you know."

Mmmmm..... I hope this doesn't sound familiar.... When was the last time you said "I love you" to your spouse? Let's just get this out there...you should tell him/her that EVERY DAY. Yep. Everyday. Keep in mind that there are many ways to do that. Of course, you can communicate this verbally to them...but your actions have to line up to your words. However, there are many other ways to show your spouse that you love them.

Remember Tuesdays list of marital needs? Here they are bundled up: Physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, and acts of service. You can tell your spouse that you love them by discovering their love language and filling that need. I discovered this the hard way.

One of my top love languages is acts of service. When someone does something nice for me it goes a long way. I see it as an act of love. So, naturally, I spent a lot of time as a young husband showing my wife that I love her through doing things for her....cleaning the house, washing the car, etc. I was totally missing it. After about 6 months of this, she kinda hinted to me that I wasn't telling her that I love her anymore. Of course, I couldn't believe my ears...I was DOING all of these things for her!!! However, I was giving love in my love language not hers. Her #1 is quality time. I was doing things for her when all she wanted me to do was sit with her.

Discover what makes your spouse feel loved. Spend your energy and focus on making that happen each and everyday.

Write it Down: What is your #1 love language? What is your spouses? Are you trying to love him/her in the way that YOU like or that they like? In your journal, make a list of 5 things that you can do to show your spouse that you love them in the THEIR language.

See you tomorrow! Don't forget ONLINE SMALL GROUP...TONIGHT @ 7PM!!!

Pastor Brian

Giftedness

2008-04-30T05:15:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

Romans 12: 3-5
3 Because of the privilege and authority God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us. 4 Just as our bodies have many parts and each part has a special function, 5 so it is with Christ’s body. We are many parts of one body, and we all belong to each other.

When I first got married, I thought I would be the one in the relationship doing it all. I was going to earn the money, do the bills, clean the house, take care of our future children, excel at my job, and keep our relationships running smoothly. I would let my wife sit on the pedestal that I had built for her in my mind....just sit there looking beautiful...

Then I figured out what we are going to briefly talk about today...my wife has skills. Lots of them. Believe it or not, she is actually better than I am at stuff (sarcasm intended). God has really given her abilities and talents that are not only better than mine but are used far more effectively. She is gifted at stuff.

My choices were limited....totally take over and tell her that I was going to do it all...do nothing and make her do it all...or figure out what we were both best at and do those things. So many couples can't figure this out. The husband is handling the money because he is "supposed to" and the wife takes care of the kids because that's a "woman's job" This simply isn't true. Positions of responsibility are no longer bound by gender or tradition. They should be established by giftedness and trust.

Figure out what your husband does well...and let him do it! Does he like to cook? Is he great with the car? Is he the organizer type? How about the wife? Is she amazing with technology? Does she handle discipline for the children well? Does she handle money like a pro? Figure this stuff out early in your marriage...be honest in your evaluation of giftedness. Just because you think you are good at something does not necessarily mean that you are...or that you are gifted in that area. If your house is a mess and your checks bounce...you are probably not gifted in the areas of organization and finances...no matter what you might think of yourself.

Spend some time this week talking about your gifts...then figure out ways to use them in your marriage. Don't be tied down by stereotype or tradition...your relationship will benefit. Finding your gifts and utilizing them is your key to a long and happy marriage.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

His Needs, Her Needs...the list 4-29-08

2008-04-29T06:01:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

Today, I want to list out the basic needs of men and women in marriage according to the book that Pastor Troy mentioned, "His Needs, Her Needs"

The First Thing She Can't Do Without - Affection
The First Thing He Can't Do Without - Sexual Fulfillment
She Needs Him To Talk To Her - Conversation
He Needs Her To Be His Playmate - Recreational Companionship
She Needs Him To Trust Him Totally - Honesty and Open-ness
He Needs A Good-looking Wife - An Attractive Spouse
She Needs Enough Money To Live Comfortably - Financial Support
He Needs Peace And Quiet - Domestic Support
She Needs Him To Be A Good Father - Family Commitment
He Needs Her To Be Proud Of Him - Admiration

A little different approach to the devotional this morning... My challenge to you is to spend your quiet time really looking at this list. Pick one or two things that your spouse needs and pray over them. Ask yourself these three questions:

A) What can I do to better meet this need for my spouse?
B) How can I better communicate that I understand this need in him/her?
C) Evaluate in three days...how am I doing with this?

It is my prayer today that your marriage thrives. When both teammates are trying to meet the needs of the other...the relationship will succeed.

See you tomorrow...don't forget Online Small Group on Thursday @ 7PM (EST) (GMT-5)
Pastor Brian

Monday "Celebrate Our Differences"

2008-04-28T05:29:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

This week we are going to take a look at last weekend's lesson... "I Do"

Genesis 1:27

So God created human beings in his own image.

In the image of God he created them;
male and female he created them.

Believe it or not...men and women are different. Each gender brings something unique into a marital relationship. Despite a woman's best efforts....men tend to be "fixers". Regardless of how many times he's tried....women tend to be "feelers" emotionally. We are we supposed to do about this?

The answer is much more complicated than it might appear... I have married many couples who say they can't wait to get married so that they can begin to "mold" their mate...to change their behavior over time. I've learned in all my years of ministry that this simply doesn't happen. Trying to change your spouse's tendencies just leads to ever-increasing levels of resentment. Now before we go on...I'm not talking about violent or abusive tendencies....those need to be dealt with immediately (I suggest some good Christian counseling).

I'm talking about the simple stuff...what interests your mate? What is their favorite way to relax? How do they handle stress? Do they like to communicate a lot or a little? There are so many ways that married people are different...choose today to celebrate these differences rather than try to make your mate just like you. I truly believe that as much as our similarities help in getting us together, our differences allow our relationships to grow deeper. We learn an opposing point of view, a different method, a new way... That's how marriages thrive..new discovery and the celebration of how God created you (and them) to be.

Write it Down: In your journal, ask God to reveal a difference between you and your spouse. That didn't take long. Now write a prayer to God asking Him to help you understand and appreciate it rather than fight against it.

See you tomorrow,
Pastor Brian

"And the Winner Is..."

2008-04-25T05:30:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

If you've been following along all week...you know that the winner is your relationship. If you follow the three methods we talked about, your ability to handle difficult confrontations will improve. Here are a few questions to think about as we head into the weekend:

1) When having a conflict, do you do more talking or listening?
2) Have you tried to see an argument from the other point of view?
3) What are the dangers of question #2? What are the benefits?
4) What type of methods did your parents use during conflict? Have you picked any of these up?
5) Have you ever escalated an argument because you were disrespectful intentionally? Did you start it or was it in retaliation to being disrespected by your opponent?

Remember, to win an argument means both have to come to a reasonable conclusion that leaves neither side feeling defeated, humiliated, or hurt. I'm praying that each of you have found this week's devotions helpful.

See you this weekend on campus! The topic: How to keep the marriage bed hot!

Pastor Brian

New Internet Campus Blog and Giveaway

2008-04-24T07:02:00.000-07:00

Greetings Faithful Readers...

We have launched a brand new Internet Campus blog at frcliveonline.wordpress.com
This blog has all the information about the campus, a link to this devotional page, and a NEW GIVEAWAY!

I am giving away an iConnect Bible. Simply post a comment in the "Welcome to the Bloggy Giveaway" entry and I will go to random.org to have it pick a random number....if that number matches your comment number...you win!

You can't win if you don't enter...tell your friends...
See you on campus (www.flamingoroadchurch.com)

BV

Thursday - How to Win an Argument Part 3

2008-04-24T05:49:00.000-07:00

Greetings Internet Campus,

Proverbs 14:3 "Frivolous talk provokes a derisive smile; Wise speech evokes nothing but respect."

Present your opinion in a respectful way - If you have children, you know this step is especially important. When my daughter has a difference of opinion from my own (at 8 years old this is happening more than it used to...) she understands that it is OK to express it. However, her tone of voice and phrasing makes all the difference in the world. I have to know that she is respectful of my role as her dad.

Have you ever argued with someone that talked down to you? Someone who made you feel dumb? That's a tactic often used by people that want to "win" an argument alone. They will bully you or demean you to make sure you understand your place. Hear me...this method is completely destructive to a relationship. Trust erodes...intimidation and resentment begin to take its place.

It is imperative that both people with a difference of opinion talk to each other in a supportive and respectful way. Here are some techniques...

a) Wait your turn to speak...remember Tuesday's devotional?
b) Check your volume - loud does not mean that you get to talk more or that you are more important
c) Watch your tone - Sarcasm is NEVER constructive when arguing. At best it will anger the other person...at worst it will be misunderstood and make the problem worse.
d) If you feel disrespected...express it in a kind way. Trading disrespectful jabs at each other will not accomplish anything.

Want to win an argument? Remember...you can't win alone. Both sides need to listen, think about the other person first, and be respectful in communicating. Sound impossible? I can hear you right now..."You don't know my husband/wife/mom/friend/boss/etc." You're right, I don't. But remember, you get to control how YOU react. Keep these three keys in mind...and each conflict that you have will be smoother than the one before.

Write it Down: Write down the names of 3 people that have argued with you in a disrespectful way. Forgive them. I didn't say forget the hurt...I said lift their names up to God and forgive their behaviour. Make a commitment to demonstrate your newly found wisdom in dealing with conflict!

See you tomorrow as we wrap up this topic and prepare our hearts for the weekend!
Pastor Brian